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[-] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 9 months ago

My end goal is to be a lesbiab living with a cute girl with cats :3

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 6 points 9 months ago

Were I to live with just a woman, cuteness would rank second to … well, certain skills and talents.

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 3 points 9 months ago

get your mind out of the gutter … if you want toI meant cooking, of course, because I'm a shit cook.

[-] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 9 months ago

Idk I personally do enjoy a nice useless lesbian :3

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 3 points 9 months ago

I already have a nice, useless male SO.¹ My standards for an added partner would have to be ever so slightly higher!


¹ OK, that's unfair. He's not useless. He helps out with technology stuff made by actually useless people.

[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 17 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

The fact they can't view a worse fate than not having to deal with men will always be fuckin' hilarious to me.

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 6 points 9 months ago

Also why is the choice "(presumably toxic) men" and "cats"?

Women are out there too.

[-] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 9 months ago

I went and watched a movie with a friend yesterday, there was a contiguous pile of 2 women, 2 dogs, and a cat.

Could not be improved.

[-] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Whenever anyone says that to me, which has happened several times because I’m a blunt cunt sometimes, I tell them I already do that and wouldn’t give it up for anything short of “fuck you money”. I genuinely dislike sharing my living space with other humans, because I don’t even like cleaning after myself, nuts to cleaning up after someone else, which is how it always goes. Being rich would fix that tho cuz I could afford to properly compensate for cleaning services.

[-] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 9 points 9 months ago

I absolutely fantasize about living alone with just a dog. But that is second to my fantasy of living in a much smaller home and lighting most of my shit on fire. I should try combining them...

[-] Rooster326@programming.dev 4 points 9 months ago

Don't let your dreams be memes???

[-] purplerabbit@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 9 months ago

my dude the alternate of ending up alone and stuck living with a you to deal with is not the w proposition you think it is

[-] cloudforms@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 9 months ago

This line is so enraging because it's fundamentally asserting that a woman's life is of no value on its own. Like, your life, YOU, as a human, are not worth anything by yourself. Really disgusting misogyny actually!

Especially when this kind of sentiment comes from women. It's so bleak. Like ma'am you are insulting yourself as well!

[-] Glytch@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

Just look at how happy Enya is, living in her castle with an army of cats. I can't think of a better way to live.

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 5 points 9 months ago

Or bears.

How awesome would that be?

[-] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 6 points 9 months ago

I also choose the bear

[-] hedge_lord@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

They do not understand that this implies great wealth. I can afford to live alone? And have multiple cats?? Yes please!

[-] cyberwitch@reddthat.com 4 points 9 months ago

My grandma, mom, and I each had to learn the hard way before making that upgrade.

[-] Wren@lemmy.today 4 points 9 months ago

I met an emu yesterday. I want to live with emus. The Australian military won't be able to get anywhere close.

[-] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 5 points 9 months ago

Ooooh that sounds fun! Mind if I visit?

[-] Wren@lemmy.today 4 points 9 months ago
[-] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 4 points 9 months ago

Awesome I'll get packing

[-] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 months ago

Just need the cats.

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

I mean that's what I was doing when I met my wife. Invited her to join.

Dammit now I have the "can't hug every cat" song in my head

[-] selokichtli@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 months ago

I'm not gonna play ball and say it sounds magical to me. I have cats and love them, but without my wife, that sounds only half amazing, if so.

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