I hate this. I train a lot and a few years ago was microwaving pasta at work and the woman in the kitchen who I HAD NEVER MET BEFORE said in horror "you're not going to ear all that??" I wasn't overweight, it was just shitty. I said i trained for a few hours that day and she didn't even downplay the comment by saying I looked good or anything. And yes years later I'm still pissed.

Women have a horrible time with their weight. We're too fat or too thin, and it's ingrained into us that we need to be a certain weight. I had an anorexic friend and whenever we went anywhere with food total strangers would come over and ask if she'd eaten. As if more food pressure was helpful and she was going to say "omg you're right! My ED is cured thank you!!!!"

It's just so fucking unhelpful and unpleasant