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The yellow and white clover, along with the odd wild daisy, are blooming in my yard! So no mowing for another week or two.

I can sit in Grandma's Hootch and drink tea while looking at pretty flowers and the lake. It reminds me of a little mountain valley.

All the while knowing that in 10 or twelve weeks it will all be covered in snow again.

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[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That looks so peaceful. I hope you get to see a lot of bees too.

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I got flowers around that the bees like better than the clover. So I don't see them hitting those flowers very often. They like the wild roses better that grow around in the places I don't/can't mow.

[–] Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Oh yeah the bees go nuts over my swarp rose.

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Man, they do love those things don't they.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

All the while knowing that in 10 or twelve weeks it will all be covered in snow again.

Jeez, just how far north are you?!

[–] Blurntout@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago

That was emotional damage I wasn’t prepared for lmao

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Far enough. The last frost is often in June and the first killing frost mid-September and snowfall by October. By November temperatures are single digits Fahrenheit overnights and sometimes the highs for the daytime.

It's a rollercoaster for weather. But I'm dumb enough to like it.

[–] plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I still mow/mulch my clover every two weeks, it “trains” it to a manageable height and help return the nitrogen to the soil.

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I mow it enough that the clover doesn't get much taller than it is right now. So I can easily enjoy the pretty flowers for several weeks.

[–] plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I often do you mow then? I mow every 2 weeks and the grass is barely 6” long.

Water every 2 days, fertilize when needed, but the clover does a good job of that.

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Depending on the year, once a week over June, then once a week and a half or so in July, and then every couple of weeks in August and By September mowing is done. I don't water or fertilize. A mix clover, alfalfa, and grasses is a tough yard cover and requires little care.

[–] plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You say requires little care and you’re mowing it twice as often.

I just mow every 2 weeks from middle of May to Sept. and that’s only because the city would complain that it’s too long.

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I have June grass seeded into the mix. During the month of June it grows fast. And since I live on a hillside, June is often the wettest month and I need that fast growth to hold the soil and prevent heavy washing. As June passes I need to mow less and less. This year I have only needed to mow twice so far, and I will need to mow less and less as summer moves into the dry part of the year and the grasses will go dormant.

[–] davad@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Did you plant any clover seeds or did it "just happen"?

I have some clover, but I want it to take over my yard more.

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I planted the clover about 17 years ago. So it's and old stand and is getting thinner as time goes by.

[–] DavidP@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Here's my weed patch - bird's foot trefoil and crown vetch. I mow as infrequently as possible so this kind of stuff crops up and I leave it alone. Bees love it and it looks great (to me anyway).

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Pretty colors!

[–] HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Are there any honey bees buzzing around?

[–] Bluewing@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Not for the clover, I have areas with wild roses that the bees much prefer over clover.