No at some point if they're shitty kids like me they'll blame you for everything. I'm sorry about your depression.

Mine are teens now, here are a few pointers:

Let them help with the dishes/garbage/sweeping. I know they’ll make a bigger mess now, but in a few years they take well to chores.

When they start asking questions, always treat them with respect like they’re a smart person who’s missing a chunk of knowledge.

How you respond to falls and failures shapes their lives. When they fall, ask if they need help up. If they ask if it’s okay, say it’s going to be okay. When they mess up, ask if they can help you clean up without going into blame, other than discussing how to avoid that in the future.

yes when they move out

Easier yes, but different. Every month (or few months as they get older) things change and it's a new kind of challenge. So the problems you have now will end and you'll have new things to tackle.

Protip: get involved with other young parents. The kids will get social time and tire themselves out, and you get to split parenting with others and it's less effort. It takes a tribe to raise a child

Also have depression, can understand.

Take as many photos and videos as you can, you will miss the silly things they say and do when they're small, and you're kinda sleep deprived so you forget stuff.. They'll also love watching younger versions of themselves saying and doing crazy things when they're older. And yeah, it gets easier every year generally - depends on the kid though, we're all different 🙂

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I dont think I would ever stop mourning the future I forced upon my hypothetical child.