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[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

...Huh... I didnt even think about the reality that allowing non-males the right to divorce actually decreased the abuse and homicide rates that those non-males faced against males until I saw this video. But it makes complete sense. We cann all easily pull out like 5 different true crime videos right now that show when a 'husband' (if you can even call those manchildren that) where they were embittered cause of some tiny , almost meaningless thing that their spouse of children did in which they end up beating up and threatening to prevent testimony from their spouse or children. Or sometimes both! ...

R.I.P and condolences to all those affected by male violence l throughout the centuries. 🥺🫂

[-] Burn_The_Right@lemmy.today 6 points 1 day ago

#JustConservativeThings

[-] boaratio@lemmy.world 38 points 1 day ago

Whenever I hear one of these tech bro oligarchs say something like this, all I can think is "What did your parents do to you?" Like, what broke you? Why aren't you in therapy? Straighten your shit out and become a decent human.

[-] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 day ago

Being rich is directly harmful towards your psyche, because if you're rich you're used to getting your way, always. Meaning you simply won't do the introspection that people who fall into dark places or hit the bottom might

I'd genuinely argue that being rich stunts your development

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Id say it stunts you development of empathy, sympathy, and your ability to accept and learn healthy , cheap coping mechanisms when youre 'stuck'. (like seeing a psychologist if you can afford it or becoming better and better at a hobby you enjoy or just finding a friend to unload with)

But it DEFINITELY doesnt stunt your development of access tp nutrition, developing political connections and politcial persuasion, health care, legal protections, education access, and pretty much everything else not related to your mental health lol.

[-] Malica@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

They become insta narcissists when they surround themselves with yes men.

[-] FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world 76 points 1 day ago

That's absolutely fucked

These tech-bro white supremacists are determined to reduce women to walking incubators

[-] mursejoy@lemmy.zip 19 points 1 day ago

Alwhile hiding behind an American flag button up and a goatee from a 90s Metallica concert.

What a vile looking human.

[-] HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 10 points 1 day ago

They're also mysoginists.

[-] Enkrod@feddit.org 26 points 1 day ago

That this can be said out aloud in america without this guy becoming an INSTANT social pariah is just... your country is sick.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Get me outta here

[-] 13igtyme@startrek.website 77 points 1 day ago

Proof he's never satisfied a woman. Oxytocin is released after orgasm.

[-] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 1 day ago

I actually interpreted this differently...

Police should be investigating if he has any links to any date rapes where he lives and travels.

[-] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 day ago

Rape bros be drugging women...

[-] Zwiebel@feddit.org 9 points 1 day ago
[-] underscores@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Barely disguised fetish

[-] SplitTheUSInFour@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

The conservative brain now demands legal roofies to rape men, women, and children at will as their gods intended. Release the papers.

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Its long overdue time for the people to do more than demand a release of the papers ...👀

the fact that a human can say what he said in public and just be allowed to enter into any relationships with others is... 'notable' Ill say...

[-] emmy5482@quokk.au 37 points 1 day ago

Some fucking abusive asshole husband out there is doing this right now. I'm sure of it.

Though you probably can't dose someone orally

[-] BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago

Ok, I had a couple of coffees and am choosing violence this morning.

Slavery was just a fact of economy for most of human history. Then Americans got a hold of it for a century and the world, pretty much collectively, said: that's fucked up, we should stop this.

America, faced with European armadas, decided not to import humans, but to make their own. Thus was born the rape based economy of the Southern slaves states. The plantations were actually able to increase the number of enslaved persons by no small margin.

As the Northern states. Industrialized and fostered a religious"middle class", this idea became more and more unpalatable. However, this was also eugenics and justification of slavery times. The church represented the progressive arm of politics at the time as it wasn't hindered by the economy. A brave few freed slaves had a lot to do with that as like was able to recognize like.

However there wasn't a mercy for African Americans that drove the general distaste of slavery, it was the economy of rape that made it so odious to Mr and Mrs Joe America who may or may not have had opportunities to interact with a segregated population, but generally could read.

Compromises eventually broke down via a fear of western states falling into slavery and the degredation of morals would destroy the country. This occurred in the backdrop of ethnic cleansing the native population. This was not a racially enlightened population, but a people, and economy, now motivated by family values.

Enter in the Civil war to put the kibosh on the progression of the institution of rape-slavery. Some of the enslaved populations were able to leverage uprising and the emancipation was sort of the only next logical step.

Reconstruction wasn't super successful and the slavery class was able to sink into the shadows, but still remain at the wheel. The culture of rape had already taken hold and was able to creep around immigration via racism and segregation became the new battle cry.

This is where a lot of prejudice against the South comes from. Think incest jokes, child bride, shotgun marriage, and wife beating general "family values" related criticism.

This economic power struggle leads right through prohibition and the enfranchising of women, marriage equality, feminism and is culminating in the anti-trans pedophilia fuelled fervor of the day.

[-] Kirp123@lemmy.world 36 points 1 day ago

Palmer Luckey should be doped with laxatives. Every single day.

[-] pticrix@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 day ago

And warfarin at the same time. That way, when he starts bleeding from irritation due to unstoppable bowel movements, it won't ever stop : it's now a race between dehydration and loss of blood.

Let them make their prediction bets on kalshi or whatever.

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

And ricin and cyanide just to ensure that we 'get the job done' definitely.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Damn you have ball knowledge about poison

[-] krakloskewm@lemmy.zip 25 points 1 day ago

I'm a dude, but if wasn't, carrying a child and giving birth would be on the absolute top of my "shit I will never fucking do" list.

[-] BetaBlake@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

"Sociopathic Autistic Mega Virgin wishes women liked him"

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I swear Ive encountered men like this who blame their autism or their looks as the reason women dont like them....when theyre just like this bozo....

Being autistic doesnt automatically make you a misogynistic , human trafficking fascist! The fuckwads!

Edit: on second thought dont believe me. Go see those videos by dudes like wheat waffles and rehab room on youtube and slide into the comment section and see what some of tbe people there say . They wkll prove to you that Im right. The problrm with people like rehab room is that they think that all because theyre right about one thing (it is indeed true tthat sex rates , accidiental pregnancy rates, and birth rates are decreasing globally) they think that theyre also right aboit EVERYTHING else .... even the things they think that are illogical, misogynistic and fascistic (it is completely false and immoral to think that that women and non-males should go back to submitting to males that same way they did before the modern waves of feminism started flooding the conversation as they do today.)

[-] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 17 points 1 day ago

So I'm reading After Nations now and the author describes how the first nation states didn't recognize women as proper citizens and denied them voting rights because the agrarian economy and colonialism required high birthrates. Those states consciously delegated women to just giving birth because that was what the current system required. After industrial revolution the state had better use for women as workers, consumers and taxpayers so it was possible to grant them more rights and allow them not to have kids. Now it looks like people in power want to go back to the old ways but not because the state needs it. It's just their racist, sexist, psychopathic believes. Crazy stuff.

[-] Leviathan@fedinsfw.app 8 points 1 day ago

To be clear, the capitalist state needs more wage slaves. They freak out about population decline not because they want more friends but because the state is owned by capitalists and capitalism requires population growth to maintain profit growth.

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Capitalists and their bribed mercenaries: "We shall maintian infinite profit and population growths on a planet that is finite like every other planet..... Works everytime 6% or 7% of the time!"

[-] CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

A lot of people who get divorced still love their partner but understand their partner is not a good or healthy person for them to be with. “Love” is in fact not all you need.

[-] nullroot@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

100% I still want and crave my ex fiance and mother of our child, but over a decade of being together proved beyond a doubt just because my body is addicted to her and my mind wishes we could be together, we are not good for each other.

[-] emptiness@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago

I’d take a free oxytocin prescription if there was such a thing; it sounds funky. But I’m also a lesbian.

In the game Death Stranding, the remaining population of what was called the United States had to move underground following an apocalypse which devastated the entire world. Many, many people became depressed. A single suicide could destroy an entire city in an antimatter, nuclear-bomb-sized explosion, so oxytocin is delivered regularly to help people from killing themselves or others.

Sometimes, I wish I could have more oxytocin for myself.

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

🫂 Im sorry and sometimes I do too.

[-] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Department of Redundancy Department — Right-wing Tech-bro

[-] Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago

Oxytocin, the new fluoride. They will add it to the water supply to make compliant women with rotting teeth since they will remove the fluoride.

I'm confused because if you already have oxytocin, wouldn't you NOT ache for another's touch? Wouldn't that have the opposite effect?

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

huh you raise a good counterpoimt to what he said. When youre already satisfied with your life excess oxytocin donest actually do anything, right? In my opinion most drug addicts dont have access to a rich life full of financial security, hobbies, achievements and friends snd things that make their life worth living. And in my opinion usually thats why they turn to drugs. In my opinion, they need something to fill the void of a lack of connection, of a lack of meaning, and lack of exhilaration. So personally I feel if youre already satisfied being alone and childfree or even satisfied after divorce after you had children more oxytocin wont convince you that you need to get another man under you.... I feel that youre already as happy as you can be in that state BECAUSE youre in that state.

Also someone in a satisfying and somewhat wealthy relationship will be more likely to have kids RIGHT NOW, as things currently are one study showed. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5505668/ So Im preetty sure you dont need to convince an eager parent or wanna-be-parent or eager partner to have children or stay with their spouse with oxytocin ...cause a satisfying life , satisfying love from their partner , their children , and their community, and satisfying future prospects will do that for you.

[-] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago

I think the lower birth rate can be several things.

  1. Low sperm counts due to microplastics.
  2. Too much suffering and environmental abuse in general causes mother nature to fight back (leading to things like #1)
  3. People have poor outlooks on the state of affairs and feel having children is irresponsible
  4. Most can not afford it
  5. Isolation caused by dopamine addiction from tech
  6. Isoation caused by political division (USA, EU, Canada)
  7. Isolation caused by shame and working too much (Japan)
  8. People work too much and don't have time for kids
  9. People don't have whole communities with warm relationships any longer causing parents to have the whole load in an untrustworthy world
  10. Many people just hate being around kids or simply don't want them

Oxytocin is not the answer. The answer is fair wages, health care, decent and affordable education, homes that are affordable, no private equity in healthcare/education/residential real estate, telework flexibility when available, waste reduction and removal, third places other than churches and outdoor parks that are cold in winter, healthy food, and personal limits on screen time.

[-] terranoid@lemmy.cafe 5 points 1 day ago

Cuck fetish

[-] 52fighters@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 day ago

I tried to find more information about her claim about divorce and female homicide rates. Over that time period, male homicide also dropped considerably. I am wondering how she knows that there's a causational relationship with divorce and not other factors?

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

i will sau I have no source that backs up what she says but I will say that it does make sense from a layman's perspective.

Everyone in this comment section can cite like 5 different true crime stories involving a partner who decided to stay with their abusive male partner cause they thought it was what they oughta do or divvorce was against their religion or sometjing....and then rhey end up getting beaten up AGAIN by that same male partner.

Stories like that are too common. You have males trying to justify their violence all because their psrtner cheated on them (...when they could have just left), cause their partner refused to have sex with them for a couple years (...when they could have just left and found someone who would have sex with them) , cause thei r partner or ex-partner wanted to keep the baby (the baby that THEY put in them ...when they could have just not had sex and dealt with it , gotten a vasectomy , used a condom, oor just left and paid child support) its so fucking common its sickening. ANd disgusting, illogical justifications like this have been being oushed and pushed for centuries ...

And throughout history its been seen time and again thst the most dangerous person a non-male will ever meet is....of course their male partners.

So from a layman's perspective seeing as how males have had a history of clearly proving theyre the larger , girthier, and more violent of all the genders it makes sense that giving non-males protection mechanisms from males like rights to at will divorce, protection orders, no-contact orders, consitutional rights for non-males , witness protection programs, abuse shelters, etc... will decrease the homicide rates of those poor non-males from abusive males.

You know , now that Im typing it out I find it odd that we would give non-males SOME protections for their defence against males ...but we dont give them other defences against males and the control these abusive males have over them like universal access to mental health care for all genders (so that abusive males can fucking learn to man up and not be an abusive twat) , universal access to housing and financial protection for people of all genders that live with abusive partners, universal access to ALL birth controls and abortions so those abusive males cant use a child as a means to lure in and attack their former partners, etc...

[-] ZeroGravitas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

Welcome to Giliad.

[-] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago

"Yes I met my wife on Skid Row why do you ask"

[-] UnequalExchange@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Someone being a previous drug addict or losing their job will not automatically mean that they need to rely on oxytocin roofing to stay with you and the kids.

[-] peacepath@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago

Unless she demonstrates an absolute need for humanity that we make more kids, there would be no reason to set a protocol to reach that aim.

Also, intoxicating people in order to reduce their freedom and force a given behaviour up to them is quite a thing. It is usually accepted as a justice decision for some dangerous offenders, but the classical moral stand on it is to accept it when there are no better available solution ; as a lesser evil.

But so doing evil on half human beings to try to reach a non needed aim? I am quite sure we can find a better use of the ressources we still have...

Doping people up to make them have sex is human trafficking.

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