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Am strugling to find some good lemmy server that will not take 15 minutes just to load home page.. That will not ban me for saying my opinion freely. That wont log me out randomly for no reason.

If you have some sujections please do tell.

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[-] TrollAccount69@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 days ago

It doesn’t seem like you’re being banned for saying your opinion freely.

It seems like you’re having posts removed because you don’t follow the rules and when someone points it out you choose to fight about it instead of fixing the problem on your end.

That event, nine days ago in your public modlog, took place on the lemmy.world server and you’re registered on lemmy.wtf. Changing servers won’t remove the world/c/asklemmy mods’ ability to enforce their rules.

Unless you’re talking about something else it seems like the problem here is you. Change your behavior or post places with different rules.

[-] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 76 points 2 days ago

That will not ban me for saying my opinion freely.

That depends very much on your opinion and how you choose to express it. Can you give us examples of how and where your freely expressed opinion has run afoul of moderation before?

[-] PrincessCory@lemmy.wtf 0 points 1 day ago

Cant remember now exactly, but i newer offend anyone, dont use bad words ever, and just speak what i think it is, newer convincing people that am 100% right on any topic. And i still got problems whenever i talk about this corupt system we live in. When ever i speak about big companies doing bad stuff and similar..

[-] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website -1 points 17 hours ago

That sentence of yours I quoted above is a solid red flag for me. Your reply now barely answers the "how" question. You didn't bother answering the "where" one. Because there are communities that have rules to avoid politics all together or to stay on topic. So proselytising about the corrupt system or terrible companies even in the most polite terms in a community that focuses, say, on cute bunny pictures will naturally get the moderators going. Another possibility is still that you haven't quite expressed your opinions in the innocuous way you think you have when moderators have stepped in in the past.

Also consider that a lot of the instances that don't do any or very little moderation tend to be isolated. By which I mean other instances won't federate with them.

Of the big instances, Lenmy dot ml has a reputation for being moderated in a biased way. So maybe stay away from there. And read the community rules before you post.

[-] elixir_fan@lemmy.ml 4 points 17 hours ago

Of the big instances, Lenmy dot ml has a reputation for being moderated in a biased way.

As long as there's moderation, there will be bias. I agree with most of what you said though.

[-] garth@sh.itjust.works 24 points 2 days ago

Asking the real question over here.

[-] yukichigai@kbin.earth 19 points 2 days ago

Yeah, I don't think you're gonna get any answers OP until you give specific examples of these opinions that you were banned for.

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 days ago

Depends on what opinions you have. I use Lemmy.ml, Lemmygrad.ml, and Hexbear.net, and all 3 have good uptime and don't censor me, because I align with communist beliefs.

[-] webdoodle@lemmy.ml -2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Definitely not Lemmy.ml. I've been censored here multiple times. In every case, they just delete the material, and give me no reason, recourse or even acknowledge the censorship. They are as bad as Reddit.

They even demodded me from a lemmy sub I created, because they didn't like my political bent. At least they did it early, so I wouldn't waste 15 years commenting and posting, just to see it all deleted later.

[-] jdr@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago

I say whatever nonsense comes into my head, and I'm not "aligned" and I've never had any trouble with .ml, just as a counter-anecdote.

[-] Polisheocket@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago

This is what I do, I don’t give a shit about others views. I haven’t had anything deleted even if I got down voted into oblivion

[-] jdr@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

Without such negative lemmykarma, how do you cope?

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 days ago

I have never been censored on Lemmy.ml, so I can only wonder what your "political bent" is that they disagreed with.

[-] Trying2KnowMyself@lemmy.ml 21 points 2 days ago

I’ve never been banned or even moderated by Hexbear.net for saying my opinion freely.

[-] SatyrSack@quokk.au -5 points 2 days ago
[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

How is it a self-burn? I don't think communists are typically ashamed of being communists. Are you saying they should be ashamed of being a communist?

[-] scottmeme@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 days ago

sh.itjust.works it's in the name (:

[-] Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 9 points 2 days ago

Just run your own server then. Nobody will ban you from it...

Of course, you can still be banned from other server's communities.

[-] TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 days ago

Haven’t had an issue with dbzero. But shitjustworks seems like a good one too.

[-] basiclemmon98@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 days ago

Look up what each server stands for and then pick whichever fits you.

[-] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Same, now that mander.xyz is down, I need an instance that avoids drama and is federated with everyone and also not blocked by the great firewall of china, since I'm headed back there in a couple weeks

[-] Cricket@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago

I think the instance I'm on, lemmy.zip fits your description, but I don't watch Lemmy drama closely and don't know about the great firewall so I could be wrong.

[-] knatschus@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 2 days ago

How can an instance avoid drama if it's federated with everyone?

[-] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 days ago

Being normal, ignoring people trying to start drama?

[-] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 2 points 2 days ago

lemmy.today i'm using now seems good. admins seem cool and server is reliable

[-] orlyowl@piefed.ca 5 points 2 days ago

I've been pretty happy over here on piefed.ca for the past several months. No complaints to speak of.

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