You can chokehold without cutting much oxygen. Just pressing in om the side / back with your fingers, not at the front aswell as gripping a bit higher on the neck.

Depends what the kink is i guess. If you literally want to be choked then yeah that’s dangerous. But if you just like to be held / hold there are pretty safe ways to do that

I think it depends on how close to full choking you get. Gentle to moderate, broadly dispersed "chokingesque" pressure is fine as it doesn't significantly interrupt blood flow. Using enough force or concentrating force to occlude the carotid arteries is asking for trouble.

Not only is there the risk of ischemic brain damage, the carotid sinus, located where pressure is often placed, is prone to arterial plaque formation due to increased turbulence. Disrupting those plaques can break them loose, causing a stroke. That's how a mate of mine lost much of the use of his right arm, though I suspect he wasn't getting choked out. Never asked though.

My partners come with that, or else they wouldn't be interested in me.

Meh I don’t buy it. Women are just as kinkybif not moreso than men

porn is evil

Many moons ago there were intelligent people advocating for a serious upgrade to the sex ed programs. The usual idiots shut it down of course, but the idea was that, among other things, we need to teach sex ed in an age of online porn. Accept that kids who want sex will get sex, and that kids who want porn will find porn. Start teaching them that porn is as much fake, pandering entertainment as the WWE. Scripted, planned, consent and paperwork ahead of time, body makeup, dick makeup, permanent makeup under the runny makeup, they don’t show the prep, they don’t always show the lube. The orgasms are mostly fake (even the guys). Most women don’t like to be slapped or choked, especially without asking permission. In fact most women don’t want anything done to them that you don’t want want done to you.

My advice for young people, and really everyone, is that you someone can’t talk about sex and go buy condoms, they aren’t ready for sex. Communication about it before, during, and after makes for the best experience. Also, you can like things in porn that you wouldn’t do in real life.

This was the advice I was given as a young man by my dad.

He told me that porn is an accurate as depiction of sex as Commando is an accurate as depiction of warfare.

On a choking meme, to boot?

Justin Hancock, a sex educator …

Ooof

And people protested this by having a mess face sitting session outside of parliament.

But seriously, I'm trapped on this acursed archipelago. I hate the British Government so much.

Oi mate ! Got a loicense for that arse ?