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[–] darkdemize@lemmy.dbzer0.com 130 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Had this happen once. I arrived without an appointment about an hour before the office closed. They allowed me in and took me into an exam room to wait for the doctor. After nearly an hour, I went to look and see what was happening. The staff were in the process of closing up for the day. They had literally forgotten I was in there.

[–] hazardous_area@lemmy.world 13 points 8 months ago

Had the exact same thing happen, except it was that someone else with an appointment had my same name. So the schedule got messed up and thought we were the same person. I stuck my head out 45 minutes into sitting in the room, and they were very confused. I then waited another 45 minutes cause they are chronically behind. I don’t go to that doctor anymore.

[–] rustydrd@sh.itjust.works 65 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Couple of years ago, I went to an orthopedic clinic with a torn ligament. They tell me to lay down in one of the rooms. An hour passes. Suddenly, the lights in the room and adjacent hallway turn off. They dead-ass forgot me in there and were about to call it a day when I popped my head out.

[–] sexy_peach@feddit.de 5 points 8 months ago

Ouch that must've hurt

[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 55 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (7 children)

Had this just over a month ago. I went down to accident and emergency just before 12 am on a Saturday (also know as the emergency department) as I was having really bad cramps because of my IBD (ulcerative colitis) I got triaged within an hour and had blood tests done within an hour after. Only saw a Dr after 7 or 8 in the morning and then was with her an hour at most, went for an X-ray and then had to sit for maybe another 5-6 hours to find out the results of a blood test that they do at the hospital. They were thinking of admitting me to hospital but we're waiting on the blood results so it's not as if me just going home was going to help myself.

While I sat waiting on the Dr the last time, I went and asked twice because I hadn't had word for hours. I also didn't have anything to eat for 24 hours as I didn't have an evening meal and I couldn't use a vending machine as I had no cash or card as I don't think I would be there 16 hours.

[–] WanderingVentra@lemm.ee 17 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

It was and I'm still suffering a flare up 5 weeks later. The only thing that's actually changed is I don't have constant cramps all day.

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[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 47 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Kinda related...

I know why I'm seeing the doctor, my dog doesn't understand why he needs to see the vet. When you tell us to go in the room don't make us wait for fuck's sake, the last time my dog looked like he was trying to escape through the ventilation grill in the ceiling and he pissed and shat on the examination table because he had been building anxiety for 20 minutes!

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 39 points 8 months ago (2 children)

My vet switched fully to having everyone wait in their cars after COVID. The vet comes to get you directly when they're ready for you. It's way better for the pets anxiety.

[–] TheFriar@lemm.ee 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Where is this? My old vet did that after COVID and I loved it

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[–] ech@lemm.ee 10 points 8 months ago

When you tell us to go in the room don't make us wait for fuck's sake

This is what I don't get. There's a waiting room. Why are we sent into a (usually) cramped room with no amenities if the person we're seeing isn't immediately available? One time I went to a clinic and the doctor apparently went on their lunch after I'd been walked to the examination room. Like...wtf?

20 minutes, then assuming there's a closed door, I'll just leave the door open

If 10 more minutes pass I'm popping my head out and asking for a potential estimate. If I get to 45 minutes and nobody has spoken to me I'm out, and will be quite irritated upon rescheduling. By that point I've been there for over an hour and unlike everyone whose taking their sweet time, I'm not being paid to be there.

I've watched too many nurses, doctors, and random medical staff just stand around talking outside patient rooms about the latest gossip to believe they're running behind on appointments anymore. The local network schedules in 20 minute blocks, and I've NEVER had a single appointment face to face with a doctor for more than 10. Usually less than 5 unless there's something majorly wrong. And despite "privacy" of separate rooms, I can hear surrounding rooms taking just as long.

I'm probably being too cynical and harsh, but after almost dying because the asshole who examined me dismissed EXTREMELY obvious signs because "you probably just need to lose weight" I've retained less and less patience with local medical staff. And the next closest office/network that will accept my insurance is almost an hour away. So yeah.

[–] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 20 points 8 months ago (4 children)

How do you even know how much time has passed in the exam room? There's no windows or clocks. It's like a shitty casino.

I wear a watch, but most people have a clock on the phone they're staring at the whole time they're waiting.

Yeah, I don't want to win any of the games in that casino.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Uhh, a wristwatch? Your phone?

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[–] sxan@midwest.social 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)

An hour? But, I'm easily entertained by my devices and probably wouldn't notice the time going by. It also heavily depends on what else I have going on; I always pad my schedule for doctors, but even so, there might be something else I have to get to.

It's medical. The person before me may have needed more time. I think doctors have a harder time than most estimating how much time a patient will need, and I don't want them rushing me out the door.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 19 points 8 months ago (1 children)

My dentist just does this. End of appointment she walks out. No “that’ll be all for you today” or “schedule your next appointment at the counter”

Anyway 10 minutes.

[–] Retrograde@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Get a new dentist. I'm in the process of doing this myself

[–] HoustonHenry@lemmy.world 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 14 points 8 months ago

Damn you, you outlying piece of datum!

[–] mumblerfish@lemmy.world 17 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I know, at least for younger me, it was above 2 hours. I had a bunch of exams, and people were leading me to different rooms. After an x-ray:

-- wait here and we will get you if we want another picture

like two hours pass, and someone comes in the door:

-- oh, there you are, come on, next exam

[–] RegalPotoo@lemmy.world 17 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Conversely, you really don't want to be getting seen promptly at a hospital. Ideally you want to be in the middle third of the priority order; get seen reasonably quickly, but not "holy shit you are going to die if we don't deal with you now" quickly

[–] soggy_kitty@sopuli.xyz 11 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I know you really wanted to say this point but it's mostly unrelated to the original post. The post refers to an exam room, you're talking about waiting rooms.

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[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 16 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I once fell asleep while wearing the paper gown at the gynecologist’s. I don’t know how long I waited, but I had a really nice nap and they were super apologetic when I woke up and popped my head out.

[–] squeakycat@lemmy.ml 13 points 8 months ago

As someone that likes to nap, you've inspired me for my next visit.

[–] programmer_belch@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Everytime I go to the dentist, just when I'm about to fall asleep the dentist tells me to keep my mouth open

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[–] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 14 points 8 months ago

If I'm just there for a checkup I'm walking out after an hour. If I'm legitimately sick I'll probably sit there all day until someone gives me medicine lol

[–] Curdie@lemmy.world 14 points 8 months ago

My wife once sat in the room for a very long time before someone came to prep the room for the next patient...

[–] How_do_I_computah@lemmy.world 13 points 8 months ago (2 children)

There really is no justification for it. It's part of the American healthcare experience. It makes them money to have no downtime between patients. It costs them nothing to make you wait. They book patient appointments with this philosophy in mind and it's incredibly disrespectful.

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[–] Soggytoast@lemm.ee 12 points 8 months ago (1 children)

At 35 minutes I ask them if they'd accept me being 35 minutes late to the appointment, or would they just consider it a no show

[–] soggy_kitty@sopuli.xyz 16 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

I did that when the doctor was 40 mins to my appointment and it didn't go down well.

I do not recommend pissing off the overworked tired person in charge of your wellbeing

[–] limelight79@lemm.ee 6 points 8 months ago

Yeah, I had one time where the doctor was 2 hours late. I had taken time off work for the appointment, too, but had I known he was running that late, I could have worked my normal schedule and still be there in plenty of time. Frustrating as hell, and he sincerely apologized for it.

But you never know what happened earlier in the day that caused that.

Someday, I might be the patient that needs that extra time.

[–] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee 10 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Could be a sign they intend to admit you and don't have any beds available yet

[–] TheKingBee@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (2 children)

They should communicate that then...

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[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I just start looking for neat shit I can steal for my backpacking first aid kit.

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[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 8 points 8 months ago

30 min, and if it happened more than once I'd change doctors and 1 star them. Get your shit together.

[–] brygphilomena@lemmy.world 8 points 8 months ago (3 children)

At what point do you start filling pockets with random things?

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[–] AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Seriously tho. Why even bring me in the room if you're gonna take 45 min to get to me. Those rooms are cold, I'd rather be in the waiting room tbh.

[–] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 7 points 8 months ago

Ive been to the emergency room on a Friday night in Norway (legevakt). It's about 5 hours. It was fine, it wasn't appendicitis after all.

[–] MrShankles@reddthat.com 6 points 8 months ago (2 children)

At least an hour and 45 minutes... cause that's the longest I've been forgotten in the exam room. But I never peeked my head out or asked, I just kinda waited.

I don't know how much longer I would've waited without finally saying something... so yeah, seven hours seems reasonable to me

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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I have this really bad problem I have to work very hard to get over when I am at a doctor- I have this need for the doctor to be pleased with me and not disappointed in what I have to say, so I find myself telling the doctor what I think they want to hear before correcting myself and saying the truth. It's like I think the doctor will hate me if I have the wrong symptoms. I don't know why.

[–] Curdie@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

Really common. Hard for many of us to not do this. It's the same when you're in technical support; people lie about the circumstances because they don't want to look bad in front of the techie. Or doctor. Or dentist. Or mechanic.

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