Not trying to defend any of the things you listed, I'm not sure though how awful behaviour by side A absolves side B of it's own share of awful behaviour.
It shouldn't be a matter of 'West vs. East' when, rightfully, calling out awful things.
It should be about the people in power who allow all these atrocities to happen, or even want them to happen, being held accountable. No matter if they are American, European, Chinese or whatever.
Shit just needs to stop.
A Short Stay In Hell stuck with me to some degree ever since I've finished it. It's somwhere around 100 pages long if I remember corecctly.
It's quite disturbing but it, somewhat ironically, helped me put things into perspective back when I've read it.