You're right about emotional baggage and I could have been clearer. I don't want someone who's perfect or emotionally unavailable, just someone who's not dealing with as much as I am. It might seem entitled or whatever but there are plenty of disabled people who are married to non disabled people.
I would also make an effort to fix myself, mask, and not be a burden. Both partners have to be accommodating.
I'm not sure this is unpopular, even on Lemmy.
Someone else already said that they should stop making the seats tiny.