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Today didn't go according to plan. To be honest, today was probably my worst day in quite a while. Lots of disappointment and lots of crying. Lots of bad thoughts.
I'm still here. Thankfully I did not hurt myself. I did cry the most I've cried in a long time. Don't know if you can see in the photo, but I have almost like rashes under my eyes from rubbing away way too many tears. God I look bad up close tho 😂

Thank you everyone for your concern. Even though today really sucked, your kind words helped me feel much better. They warmed my heart and showed me that at least, I'm not completely alone in this world.
I'm still on my HRT journey, hoping that one day, I'll feel better about all of myself. One day, I'll look into the mirror and actually see a girl there. One day, I'll take a quick selfie and actually admire it.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you guys, gals and nonbinary pals. You're all awesome 🩷

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[–] GalacticSushi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm sorry to hear things didn't go well today, but glad you're here to tell everyone. And don't worry about the crying, it's just part of processing the rough stuff. Don't let anyone's lack of acceptance let you think that you're not valid or don't deserve happiness.

You are loved and we're all happy that you're here. 🩵

[–] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 days ago

Thank you. Honestly thank you ❤️

Also...nice username. I love sushi!
You just reminded me how hungry I am, I haven't eaten anything today. I don't eat much...

I'll try to take care of myself and recover from this nightmare of a day. Thanks again, kind Sushi stranger!