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Today didn't go according to plan. To be honest, today was probably my worst day in quite a while. Lots of disappointment and lots of crying. Lots of bad thoughts.
I'm still here. Thankfully I did not hurt myself. I did cry the most I've cried in a long time. Don't know if you can see in the photo, but I have almost like rashes under my eyes from rubbing away way too many tears. God I look bad up close tho ๐Ÿ˜‚

Thank you everyone for your concern. Even though today really sucked, your kind words helped me feel much better. They warmed my heart and showed me that at least, I'm not completely alone in this world.
I'm still on my HRT journey, hoping that one day, I'll feel better about all of myself. One day, I'll look into the mirror and actually see a girl there. One day, I'll take a quick selfie and actually admire it.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you guys, gals and nonbinary pals. You're all awesome ๐Ÿฉท

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[โ€“] Bryllyg@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Thank you for letting us know. I am so glad you are ok and I hope your days improve. You are making it through and you are stronger than you realize. Big hugs if you want them. ๐Ÿ’œ

[โ€“] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I won't ever turn down hugs ๐Ÿฉท

and I hope your days improve

Thank you. Me too, honestly. It feels like I exhausted my supply of bad days for the next week just today.
It really took it out of me. Especially since I was looking forward to it so much. Oh well

[โ€“] Bryllyg@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

There will be waaay better birthday parties.

I mean, now you have the lowest bar, every birthday party after this is statistically going to be way better.

Here are the hugs. ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚

Thank you sibling.

Hugs ๐Ÿซ‚