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[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

we should be guilting boys by insulting their entire gender,

The post literally points out at that it isn't all men, but it's a lot.

[-] BananaIsABerry@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 hour ago

If your slogan is that all men are the problem then it will be interpreted that all men are the target.

I saw another post that said "AlwaysAMan" and I think that gets the message across a lot better.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 hour ago

What is everyone reading? The post literally points out that it is not all men.

“All men” isn’t a slogan here. “A lot of men” is the truth. Most rapists are men.

[-] BananaIsABerry@lemmy.zip -2 points 1 hour ago

The post doesn't exist without the context surrounding the discussion. Quite a lot of the discussion I've heard is people bending over backwards to say they know it isn't all men but that it's okay to say all men are the problem.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 hour ago

but that it’s okay to say all men are the problem.

Where?

The majority of rapists are men. That's the truth. We need to be able to acknowledge that if we're going to get anywhere near reducing rape and sexual assault.

[-] BananaIsABerry@lemmy.zip -2 points 49 minutes ago

This whole thing is a shitstorm on tiktok. My wife has been perpetually pissed off about it so I've heard plenty of people making these claims, men and women, from there.

No one is refuting of disagreeing that point, just that there are better ways of making that statement then shutting down innocent people defending themselves. Prejudice and stereotyping is wrong, doesn't matter who it's targeted at.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 47 minutes ago* (last edited 46 minutes ago)

The post literally points out that it isn't all men.

People are pissed off that yet another young woman has been raped and nothing was fucking done about it. It's not just a TikTok trend.

This has been happening since before I was even born. When is it going to get better? When are we going to stop pausing the conversation in order to reassure men that it isn't all of you and we're so sorry your feelings are hurt and maybe if we're raped a little quieter you can feel not as guilty about holding your fellow men accountable for their misogyny.

Stop crying about women being angry about how we're treated and start holding other men accountable.

this post was submitted on 30 Sep 2026
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