Not really venting, but depressed today (pawb.social)

submitted 4 days ago by natebluehooves@pawb.social to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I’m having one of my “can’t get out of bed” days where nothing seems fun, but it’s kinda funny, I am getting a constant “yeah, but strangers on the internet thought you looked cute” so that’s nice at least!

it feels like Iike depression is a bit less bad… does anyone else deal with depression by dressing up?

brain is telling me being depressed but pretty is dumb, but i swear i feel a glimmer of something when people around me agree that i’m pretty or cute.

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[-] Snowcat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 days ago

Being depressed but pretty is dumb.

Not in the slightest. All of us handle things in our own way, and you flaunting your girlish charm is right as rain to do! Also, you are indeed cute. And that is a fact to slice through the silly shadow that wants to give you a day of bleh.

For me, just getting my comfy nightgown on in the mid-day is enough to make me feel better than I was when I was just simple bedrotting earlier. If you ever need an escape from reality for a spell though: https://redirect.invidious.io/watch?v=g4edUoRObOc

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