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I'm usually quite introverted unless it's someone I'm already close with.
I've recently entered my 30's and never really like going out to town for a booze up.
So ever since Uni ended, I've seen myself go out less and less, and spend more and more time at home with my partner doing something together, or working on one of my hobbies. I think moving in with my partner was a big shift - as I really didn't feel the need to regularly go out.
Might go out once a fortnight? to meet some friends in a small group or one-on-one. I'm pretty content with that - though I don't have a large social group.
I'm definitely a small group kind of guy; even when I'm in a situation with lots of people, I don't really want to be the center of attention. I much prefer to have a more interesting conversation than a bunch of smaller shallower conversations.