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[–] eagleeyedtiger 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I decided this year we are no longer buying Christmas presents for adults. There are more kids now in the extended family and they're getting older and asking for more expensive presents each year. The stress of trying to figure out what to get everyone is also very annoying as we're all grown up and can get the things we really want anyway (usually too expensive for gifts).

Not to complain about generosity, but we always get stuff we don't particularly want or need and it just feels wasteful. So I told my side of the family our plan and to only get gifts for the kids.

[–] liv 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Low key envious right now. I tried to do that a few years ago but then I found out all the adults were still going to get each other and me proper presents so I had to scramble.

So now I've gone back to trying to get things people like and being stressed.

[–] eagleeyedtiger 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly, I've been wanting to do it for years and decided I need to be the change I wanted to see in the world :)

Some people really enjoy gift giving, so if they sent something I wouldn't complain. But I'm not expecting anything and have made it clear that I won't be getting adults anything.

[–] liv 2 points 1 year ago