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welcome to the weekly how's your week going thread

this thread is a pretty straightforward and relaxed one for giving updates on how your week is going and chat like that. nothing special


on my front: last week was total chaos, so hoping for things to calm down this week because it is completely fucking up my groove; unfortunately reddit is not making that easy. this is also not ideally timed for my emotional state. anyways, read book 20 for the year (America City by Chris Beckett). on book 21. maybe i'll marathon through a bunch of these in between keeping the site from being on fire

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[–] interolivary@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel like I'm in some sort of limbo. I've got Basedow's Disease (aka Graves' in the anglophone world) and N+1 other autoimmune conditions, and for the past 4 years after my diagnosis I feel like I've just been… existing, trying to cope.

I generally feel awful physically because my body is literally attacking itself, and I'm just so tired all the time. I'm not employed because I can't concentrate enough to program anymore, so days just blur into each other. Lately I've been more down in the dumps than usual, questioning why I even bother with, well, anything really.

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hear you on that. I've got Crohn's disease and have had it since I was a kid - but for the last 8 or so years it's just been getting worse and worse. I hardly have the energy (and motivation) to do much anymore.

Due to some nasty side effects of a type of medication I was on for way too long, my teeth have just gotten so problematic... Over the weekend I had a tooth filling come out and I'm not really able to eat anything solid, and it's driving me crazy (and further compounding my lack-of-energy issues). Thankfully I'd already had a dentist appointment booked for the 14th, but that feels like forever and a day.

I'm just a random stranger on the internet, and I know you've heard this a million times just as I have - but hang in there. I can't make any promises on the future, but the one thing that we can control is our response and reaction to our situation. It's also more than okay to not have a happy/positive outlook on the situation as well, because it shows we're still fighting.

[–] alyaza@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Over the weekend I had a tooth filling come out and I’m not really able to eat anything solid, and it’s driving me crazy (and further compounding my lack-of-energy issues). Thankfully I’d already had a dentist appointment booked for the 14th, but that feels like forever and a day.

god what a relatable experience. right before christmas i literally split a tooth in half and while it wasn't a big deal to fix it (thankfully) the three-ish days i had to navigate around missing half of a tooth that grinds your food into something swallowable was supremely uncomfortable. i can't even feel the difference between the fake and real tooth and it still makes me paranoid it's just gonna happen again when i'm eating something, lol

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

and it still makes me paranoid it’s just gonna happen again when i’m eating something, lol

Oh my goodness yes! I was just trying to enjoy some chicken nuggets that were apparently just a tad too crispy while watching Fringe... Didn't expect such a disaster!

I'm hoping I can opt for a crown instead of fillings to avoid it happening again, but I'm not too sure what factors into the determination of a filling vs a crown...

For now I suppose I'll just have to enjoy a lot of oatmeal, jello, and pudding lol

[–] alyaza@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Oh my goodness yes! I was just trying to enjoy some chicken nuggets that were apparently just a tad too crispy while watching Fringe… Didn’t expect such a disaster!

in my case it was pretty straightforward: hard candy. the unexpected part was that tooth had no outward indications of anything wrong with it--no pain, no cavities, nothing like that. just broke in half one day while i was chewing. i actually have a filling in it, and that's probably what saved the tooth from being completely fucked, but also took so much of the tooth out, lol.

to say the least i am a very fastidious brusher now, at least when i can remember it. i have 60 years of life ahead of me and it'd be nice to not fuck my teeth up now

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 2 points 1 year ago

I can definitely get that! Skittles are my "guilty pleasure" (I am not much of a chocolate person) but I haven't had them in a while since I get the feeling if I tried (especially since we're just getting out of the winter season over here, and the cold temperatures make them really hard lol) I'd probably lose quite a few teeth by the time I'm done with a small bag of them...

Occasionally I'll have the gummy versions of skittles, but its just not the same 😮‍💨