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[–] djsoren19@yiffit.net 10 points 6 days ago

I'm white and can pass as a straight man if I try hard enough.

[–] Ixoid@lemm.ee 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I have excellent time sense. I could set a 15min timer on the kitchen microwave, then go into another room. Often I'll get up and walk into the kitchen just as the timer beeps. Useful, but hard to monetise. Oh, and white privilege.

[–] mapleseedfall@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

The human timer

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

My hair turns copper-gold in the summertime when I'm out in the sun for a few days in a row.

[–] mapleseedfall@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago
[–] DankDingleberry@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

i live on one of the richest, most developed countries in the world with a good social system and universal healthcare and retirement.

[–] maks@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

I'm seriously lucky, to the point it has been a running joke among my friend group!

It doesn't manifest itself as "everytime I gamble, I win", but more subtly. Finding dollar bills on the ground, having unexpected discounts, getting a dream job, ...

[–] pixelscript@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago

20-something English-speaking cis hetero white American male, stable supportive family I keep strong ties with, four-year university STEM degree, gainfully employed at a low-stress job full of people I like that affords a comfortable, reasonably above modest lifestyle, no outstanding debts, no severe health issues or crippling disibilities.

I've certainly won more than my fair share of cosmic lotteries, all things considered.

Only thing I guess I'm missing is a partner, which is entirely due to my own lack of effort. So far sailing solo hasn't bothered me any. But I do occasionally daydream about what I might be missing out on...

[–] someacnt@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I literally have nothing, bruh. Reading this thread reminded me that I am trulu the inferior being.

[–] mapleseedfall@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Nah impossible, at the very least you have either eyes or ears that works to be able to view this thread. Thats an advantage that some might lack

[–] someacnt@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm not convinced that's a plus. Really feels like ignorance is bliss nowadays

[–] mapleseedfall@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

I guess my point is that its generaly better to focus on what you have rather what you lack.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 6 days ago

I'm white, my family is middle-ish class, I don't pay rent.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 78 points 1 week ago (14 children)
[–] thisguy1092@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

A motivated person? Crazy

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 35 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah nothing to be proud of but I can't discount how powerful this one is, now that I'm "woke" to it.

Like I have worked for people for years and just not known they were racist or sexist, only for them to let it slip. And then you see behind the mask.

Realising why there are no people of colour in my office, or women with any kind of power. Realising I would not have this job if I was not a white man.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 28 points 1 week ago (10 children)

As a queer person, it feels even weirder. Like I'm a spy and my cover could be blown at any moment.

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[–] Libb@jlai.lu 40 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I never felt the need to compare myself to others. aka, I'm competing with no one but myself.

I consider that a huge advantage, but who knows maybe I'm wrong.

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[–] lukstru@lemmy.world 35 points 1 week ago (2 children)

White, male privilege and loving parents that supported me in all ways when needed. Seriously, life has been almost on peaceful mode, definitely easy mode.

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[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

College educated parents. Education and early career is so much easier to navigate with parents who know the ropes and have a network.

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[–] Kevo@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm easily satisfied with life. I have a pretty good job and make pretty good money, good friends, and I have a beautiful wife, and that's all I need. I'm not the ambitious type who needs to keep making more and more money. I don't need the fanciest car or designer clothes. I don't want to be famous, and I don't have anything to prove to strangers. That makes it much easier to be happy, I think.

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Things I didn't choose or earn? Taller than the average woman in my country. Both parents were smart as hell, university professors. Dad who thought women had every right and ability to do any job they wanted, we weren't raised differently based on sex.

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