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have you discovered any unexpected erogenous zones since transitioning? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 5 days ago by applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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ive been broadening my sexual horizons a lot since i started transitioning and somewhat recently ive started discovering new and sensitive erogenous zones. theres the obvious ones i knew to expect like the nipples and breasts, which have been very fun with how sensitive they are.

one that took me completely off guard is my back. i got a back massage from a cutie and somehow it was an intensely sexual experience for me. when she pushed on the right places it felt so good i was moaning uncontrollably and honestly it felt like i could have had an orgasm from it. i wasnt sure if it was a fluke so i tried it again with someone else and had the same experience so it seems this is just a thing for me now lol.

so yeah im curious if others have made similarly surprising discoveries.

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[–] Robyn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago

Not sure if they are exactly “erogenous” for me, but my shoulders started feeling intimate to touch and my cheeks feel nice to rub.

[–] WillowWisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 4 days ago

Oh, just... so many. Basically my entire body is an erogenous zone at this point, just over a year on E. Some particularly fun and unexpected ones have been my knees, elbows and bellybutton, and I've been able to have orgasms from stimulation of all of the above 🫠 they all feel quite different too, all unique. My partner and I have semi-seriously joked about getting an anatomy chart and marking off areas of it once they've given me an orgasm from each part, and I'm pretty sure we could eventually fill in the entire thing 🫣

[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 8 points 5 days ago

My neck has always been sensitive to be honest but today it's much more.

Nipples was more a mental thing pre-transition and became a lot after. Breast are less sensitive (thanks SSRI, nipples too though) but that was wonderful and will again when I'll be better. A lot of things are now linked to situations. If I feel that something was made to dominate me and/or arouse me by someone I feel safe and want something from... My body reacts instantly and I become submissive and shiver from anticipation or touch... I was never like that before. I can switch but that's not the role I prefer.

Oddly enough, if I want to, I can just refrain my body from feeling it, almost all of it.

There are a lot more thing I'd like to discover too but need to find the right partner.

[–] jrTug_2T@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 days ago

For me it was, apparently, an almost complete rewiring of my libido, so some things that previously "did it" for me, do for nothing for me, anymore, and vice-versa.

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I still don't think I have erogenous zones. I'm uncertain if that should concern me.

[–] CorrenteAlternata@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 days ago

I'm uncertain if that should concern me.

Does that have a negative impact in your life whatsoever?

[–] HopeOfTheGunblade@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 days ago

Neck definitely went up a ton.

[–] TechieDamien@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 days ago

I never expected it, but my ears. She had me moaning in record time when she was sucking and nibbling them!