I think it's important to note that this happened inside their gated community
like, exactly where it is most unassailable, wtf is even the point of the gated community if you can't let your kid out of sight
I think it's important to note that this happened inside their gated community
like, exactly where it is most unassailable, wtf is even the point of the gated community if you can't let your kid out of sight
Fuck, why don't they have this kind of energy when thy get reports of kids in genuinely horrific conditions.
That story was so wild I had to check what instance this is and have a look at the sidebar… damn.
It’s just a catch-all news community.
Yeah, I saw… but at first I thought I’d stumbled upon a dystopian short fiction instance. Didn’t think it was an actual real world occurrence.
Meanwhile if she had killed her kids...
CPS and the police did investigate Lyndsey Clancy considering she's currently on trial. These authorities are using the same level of scrutiny and prosecution against this mother as they did Clancy which is clearly too much.
Fear is a strong tool to control people. If she won't fear the community, she will fear the state.
I have often said Virginia is the "no fun" state for multiple reasons. This one will go to the top of the list. JFC.
Headline is confusing. Mother is from Virginia, event occurred in Utah.
Thanks. If any state is even less fun than VA, it's UT.
Did you read the article? The family had recently moved to Virginia from Utah. This happened in Virginia.
Strike that. Reverse it. Carry on.
How is a kid ever supposed to grow and learn and gain confidence to navigate the world when their community is so anxious they wont even let you cross the street. If anxiety becomes the principal guiding emotion for raising children, we are going to produce adults with terrible anxiety disorders who never learned to embrace complexity or uncertainty.
I saw this play out with the family that used to live across the street from us. In the 90s, helicopter parenting was a new, shameful thing - and this family was all-in on it. There was only one house between theirs and the bus stop on the corner, yet the mom would drive her kids there and have them sit in the car with her instead of standing outside like the rest of us.
They never took walks or rode bikes around the neighborhood. They never went to the playground alone, even though it was literally at the end of our street.
My family had much more freedom - one of my older brothers was so comfortable with his surroundings that he even drew a map of our neighborhood from memory. I remember using that map when I first started riding my bike alone. We developed strong senses of direction that continue to benefit us today.
Anyway, one day the oldest kid was playing with my brothers. As a group, they decided to go to the playground. When it was time to go home, my brothers decided to take the long way around the block (instead of the straight way down our street.) They were almost home, only maybe 500 feet (about 150 meters) from the same bus stop corner I mentioned earlier, when this kid started flipping out, bawling his eyes out that they "were lost." The kid was so sheltered, he couldn't recognize the bus stop he'd been waiting at every school day for years by that point, just because they approached it from a different direction.
Nowadays, that kid's an adult who only ever leaves home for work. He's around 35 years old, and both him and his younger brother still live with their parents and isolate themselves. Ever since Covid, they do Halloween by setting up a candy chute through a window on their door so they don't have to open it and interact with anyone. It made sense in 2020, now it's just another way for them to avoid interacting with the rest of the world.
I wish I could say I was surprised, but really I'm just sad for them.
...going to produce adults with terrible anxiety disorders?! I think that ship has sailed.
Thankfully in reasonable places there's help for that. It would be nice if we could stop passing out abuse and enhancing it in our kids though. Those of you that have kids anyways.
My kids, up until 2019, had to walk or bike their way to school every day. Sometimes up to 10 miles. If they had trouble they could use their flip phones to call me.
It's all about control. Anyone with even a scrap of dubious authority wants to control people, and everybody up the ladder piles on to whichever victim is found.
It also about liability, and wanting protect yourself from it. The USA is such a crazy litigious place
The same people calling the cops in these situations also tend to be the ones sayinghe ones saying "wHy DoN't KiDs PlAy OuTsIdE aNyMoRe!!!!1!" as if it's the kids' own moral failing.
We have become much dumber in the quest to make life for children safer. I grew up in a city with 1.5M people. When I was six, I was driving around alone on my bike, visiting playgrounds and friends. What the mum did was perfectly reasonable and the response was insane.
And people act all confused as to why children don't play outside as often. Because people call the fucking cops on mothers.
A few years ago there was a huge outcry because a mother let her 8 year old son ride the NYC subway alone. So crazy.
Because people call the fucking cops on mothers.
And cars like tanks and car centered environments.
This so fucking dumb! She did nothing wrong and bullshit. Makes me so angry. Growing up being able to go wherever and raising my kids this way. Bullshit they now traumatized that child and now this woman will always have CPS on her ass for life.
Keep in mind once they are on you they never truly go away.
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