YAAASSSSSSS I GOT IT I GOT THE JOB I INTERVIEWED FOR THIS AFTERNOON
I start next week!!!!!!!!!!!

YAAASSSSSSS I GOT IT I GOT THE JOB I INTERVIEWED FOR THIS AFTERNOON
I start next week!!!!!!!!!!!

That's awesome
Everything coming up Milhouse!
FUCK YES I LOVE THIS FOR YOU!!!! FUCK YEAHHHHH GIRL!!!
Woohoo congrats!!
ee grats!
Boss lady would never have not liked you :)
Awww shucks :3

Congrats!
Thank you!!! ๐๐
Onya Queen ๐

Fucking brill!
I'm fucking ecstatic! Gosh the boss lady must've liked me, even with my 0 experience in pick packing/warehouse!
Holy shit yeahhhhhhh! It's all coming up Spud now bby ๐ โจ
yay ๐ซ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
Eeeeeee!!!!
I'm playing at Bar Ossau in brunnie around 7pm if anyone wants to grab a drink :)
Tonight????? Hot damn, I've missed it if so.
Oh shit my bad, tomorrow night lol
Sound fun - will be there.
I'll be there :3 love seeing you play!
hail
We Built This City came on in the car yesterday. I can't listen to this song now without thinking of the cows. I've only seen the video a few times
I have rewarded myself for a challenging day with iced-vovo gelato.
I'm going to turn my brain off
sounds delicious ๐
Need some Fat Boy Slim Kittens to wash your brains https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqU11H9_Wqo
I don't mind, I'm just surprised how quickly it got stuck in my head https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2suj6q_gME
... and himself will be needing a new job. Again.
Sending him my job luck!!!!
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It's not easy to get jobs. I wish him luck.
Appreciated. A job itself usually isn't the problem, it's a not shit one.
Interview went well I think, seems like a nice place to work and everyone was really friendly. Had my interview with the owner (small business), and I was a little awestruck; she's a badass boss lady and I'm here for it. I'll be grabbing food from the freezer, weighing it, and packing it ๐ช๐ช
Fingers crossed, I'd like some of that noice casual above $30 an hour pay, please and thank you ๐
May the Universe take a little pity on me :3
Sending YASSSS vibes.
IT WORKED YOU ARE A WITCH!!
Well, yes.
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I wish you the best ๐ค
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also, working in the food industry you may get to take some home ๐ค
cold ...๐ฅถ
ugh..
Parent issues here too atm.
Couple of days ago P's got back from an 8 day trip up north. As expected ol' girl didn't eat much. I fought pretty hard for them to take soup up (only thing substantial she can eat) which they reluctantly did. Chucked her on the scales (with a few arguments along the way) down 4kgs.
Massive meltdown accusing me of trying to 'get rid of her' and 'you're trying to kill me'. Wild mood swings.
Anyway so I'm down the beach atm (they're in melbs) and have fired off an email to ol' boy (who is very controlling of health related things) that I won't be back to help unless she gets a neurological assessment to see what exactly is going on as a lot of this is increasingly uncharacteristic. But for some reason he won't do it. It should have been done a while ago.
The problem is (as usual with that generation) she's expected to cook for him (when I'm not there). Did a huge batch of soup when they got back so she's all good, but she is a shadow of her former self in the kitchen these days and there's more risk of something going wrong (hot things etc.).
So I've unplugged the homephone and turned off the mobile, day 3 now. Never done this before. Usually there are calls daily. I'm effectively leaving her 'high and dry' which I've been accused of too many times to count when I'm not there.
There'll be a lot of resentment.
I am trying to force ol' boys hand in finally getting that assessment so we all have some sort of understanding what this decline (it's non-amnestic so a bit unusual, and not reversing) is and how to better manage it (which I think is fair). There may be a better way to manage this but just don't know without a neuro assessment.
Gentle suggestion hasn't worked, arguments haven't worked so I'm choosing complete absence no contact until he pulls his head out of his arse.
Whether I'm doing this correctly I have no idea.
They're going to see this as very spiteful, and it will create a lot of stress.
But I will have to make a decision in the next few whether to stick to my guns, or head back and resume normal programming.
This might get ugleee ๐
First. Hugs.
Second - take or leave this but when I have had all the shit happening it's been helpful to get some psychology appointment. Not hard to get a mental health plan and rebate from GP..and no harm in using them for simple triage of a sounding board with no skin in the game and advice as needed about (a) how to care for you in all this and (b) strategies to relate. I've done it more then once and it's helpful.
Also we are here for you too
Does he at least acknowledge something is different or is he insisting she's the same as always? That's such a difficult situation, the mood swings would be hard to see, especially being accused of the complete opposite
What a stubborn old coot. Gotta be one of the worst qualities to develop in later life (looking at you, mother). May we all break the cycle.
stubborn
Yep, both are.
Still don't know if I'm doing the right thing though as it is adding risk. But getting that assessment could reduce it.
I've failed in finding middle ground and this a:

Hey sometimes it has to be done. Can't help someone who doesn't want it (your dad I mean), and sometimes going AWOL/no contact is the only way to force their hand, or at least give you a bit of peace.
I had to do it with my mum, when she developed schizophrenia and refused medication or therapy (apparently tarot cards and crystals are better)
My father refused any flex on his stubbornness, we haven't spoken in five years.
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