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Just got dumped after two years in a relationship while clocking in to work. I hate being in Texas. I hate having no friends, no family. I'm so tired of being thrown away over and over for nearly 40 years

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[-] washbasin@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

Small thing, but at least you have Skeletonwitch. \m/

[-] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Saw them open for Amon Amarth twice and they did not disappoint

[-] Delilah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Im sorry girl.

[-] recursive_recursion@piefed.ca 20 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Not sure what I can say as one enby to another woman but please have confidence in yourself✊

I'm sorry your current situation sucks.

As far as I'm aware, you didn't deserve to be treated poorly and yeah Texas is pretty brutal towards transpeople, I wish conservatives and republicans wern't such assholes but yeah they're assholes.

But anyways, you are gorgeous and you deserve to be loved! I wish the winds of luck fly in your favor!~💪🏳️‍🌈

Stand strong girl as you are not alone!🤗🌻🌸

[-] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago

I really don't deserve to be loved. I don't believe in love anymore

[-] Sunshine@piefed.ca 13 points 3 days ago

You do deserve love though.

[-] Shirow@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

Sometimes I wish I could open a safe place for trans people for them to have a safe haven. For them to get up on their feet or just having a home and some people they decide to be family. Or just stay building as nice community.

I barely can help myself though.

[-] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

I've been thrown away from supposed trans safe communities too, I've learned to not trust them so much

[-] Shirow@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 days ago

I still wanna trust people though even if I get hurt in the process.

if you do it, i'd like to be in.

Breakups can be brutal, I feel your pain. Take it slowly, let it sink in. You are allowed to feel shit. It proves you are a loving person, capable of feeling emotions. 🫂

[-] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 days ago

I don't want to feel anymore

That's fine. It takes some time. Sad feelings are valid. You are valid, even when you're sad. I won't tell you to stop feeling sad. The past relationship and the breakup are a part of you, like a scar. Take a deep breath. Allow yourself to heal. Things will get better, and for now, it's enough to reasonably internalize this, even when the mood hasn't yet.

[-] Sunshine@piefed.ca 10 points 3 days ago

You don’t deserve any of this. Please don’t blame yourself for the failings of society that was meant to cherish you.

[-] TheGingerNut@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 days ago

No way in heck you're ~40!

[-] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 days ago

Hugs, we will make it through this 🫂

[-] rounding_error@lemmy.today 6 points 3 days ago

I believe in you.

[-] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago

I don't even have the money to leave Texas. Hell I don't have any money at all. I might be living out of my car soon

[-] peacepath@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

sell all you still have, and move to the Philippines or Thailand, or anywhere that accept trans people. Just so you may live a life.

this post was submitted on 25 Sep 2026
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