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The dark cloud of crippling social anxiety crowding in like it own the place when those good thoughts get too comfy.

I'm not the artist, Heresvix is. Source

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[-] waltersf@bookwyr.me 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Iโ€™ve learned overtime that the dark cloud is trauma, and it needs deconstruction. Open conversations are just that. Let the other person know next time:

โ€œThank you for musing me the other day when we [expand] that friendly conversation. I enjoyed it, and wish we could do this again some other time you are willing to. Here is my personal card๐Ÿ™‡โ€โ™€๏ธโ€๐Ÿถ๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿชชโ€

Deconstruction of my post traumatic social anxiety took a very long time, having been ostracized several times in my lifetimes.
Technically still am, but I hope to fix it once I am in Luxembourg|Iceland.
I hate to ๅปบๅ‰.

[-] Gyrcas@piefed.zip 11 points 4 days ago

Ah the good ol social anxiety...

I don't speak with people, I feel lonely and like a loser

I speak with people, I feel like I'm just an annoyance and people don't really like me

[-] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 4 days ago

Hey look, itโ€™s meeeee

It doesnโ€™t matter how great the conversation is, as soon as I leave my brain starts trying to find what I said that could have come across as weird. And then I hyper fixate on that until the next time I see them, the conversation is normal, and it starts all over again

[-] multifariace@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

I just sang Weird Al's You Don't Love Me Anymore at karaoke in a bar full of people who probably never heard it before. I'm practicing to do Albuquerque soon.

Be weird!

[-] AzuraTheSpellkissed@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

damn, how would I even follow up?
step 1. "Hey, how are you doing?"
step 2. ???
step 3. Friendship?

[-] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

they think you're cringe and annoying

reality

they thought about what it would be like to fuck you at least 7 times during your conversation

[-] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Both of those are extremely disturbing to me :(

[-] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

back when I was still of dating age I would imagine what it would be like to be with them if they were bald from chemo. kind of fucked up, but it allowed me to at least understand if I wanted to be with this person at the worst moment of their life.

eventually my brain just started doing it for everyone I met ๐Ÿ˜…

[-] architect@thelemmy.club 2 points 3 days ago

Me the last three weeks

[-] solidheron@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 days ago
this post was submitted on 26 Sep 2026
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