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Fediverse, the social media system for 40+ year old people who built the world wide web and regret it.

Oct 01, 2026, 11:32 PM

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[-] carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone 311 points 5 days ago

there’s 2 kinds of people on fedi:

40 year olds who remember the good ol days of the interwebs

16 year old queer shitposters who got tired of getting called every slur imaginable on other networks

both are into linux

[-] Cheebus@lemmy.world 71 points 5 days ago

you forgot the 3rd kind

Russian bots

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[-] Doom@lemmy.world 81 points 4 days ago

Fuck that. I don't regret it. We built the world wide web from nothing for everyone and had it fucking stolen by rich assholes who put our community resources WE developed behind ads and paywalls. Unlike those uncreative hacks we have the talent to take it back.

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[-] Sergio@piefed.social 176 points 5 days ago
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[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 170 points 5 days ago
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[-] HeHoXa@lemmy.zip 32 points 4 days ago

Yes, bow to me, the grand architect of geocities Dragon Ball Z pages.

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[-] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 74 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Come now, at least half of Mastodon/*key users are genderqueer twentysomethings who are mind-bogglingly good with computers.

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[-] Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Im sorry but I did not contribute to this in any meaningful way.

[-] B1tch_Pudding@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

Uhhh excuse you, you create the meaningful content!

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[-] B1tch_Pudding@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Sorry that was rude. I just like your posts. You're an essential part of the fediverse and I hope you make more 🌷

[-] lordziv 28 points 4 days ago

I personally blame the iPhone. Shit all started going downhill from then

[-] GrindingGears@lemmy.ca 23 points 4 days ago

Nope. You got the time period right, but I would like to posit it’s when they started letting our Parents, drunk uncles and dumb ass aunties on Facebook.

The problem always has, and always will be, Facebook.

[-] MightEnlightenYou@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

It's not Facebook either. The concept of letting too many of "those" people in to quickly and destroying the culture is known as "eternal September" and is from 93-94.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eternal_September

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[-] marcos@lemmy.world 104 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

There are some lost kids wandering around complaining about their moms...

I dunno how they found it into here.

[-] expatriado@lemmy.world 57 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

complaining about their +70 year old mom

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[-] Zedstrian@sopuli.xyz 99 points 5 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Not 40, but also don't want my thoughts and comments to be an income stream for a for-profit organization, whether that be by selling my data for profit, training an LLM with my data, or contributing to an inescapable network effect that can be increasingly monetized by various means.

The modern social media platform is not designed to foster positive interactions, but rather to maximize shareholder value.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 48 points 5 days ago

also don’t want my thoughts and comments to be an income stream for a for-profit organization

I mean, you're fooling yourself if you don't believe Lemmy has been scrapped by a thousand crawlers by now.

I'm more paranoid about how many accounts are bots than about some data aggregator getting my dumbshit hot takes as training data.

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[-] master_baiter@programming.dev 67 points 5 days ago

Unfortunately as a younger gen z i need to supplement my Fediversing with traditional social media unless i want to have humor of a previous generation and get obliterated at school. I wish there was a greater variety of people on here

[-] boonhet@lemmy.zip 40 points 5 days ago

Nah, join the dark side. There will soon be a day when you can't understand the young ones anyway. Why not today?

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[-] The_Almighty_Walrus@lemmy.world 20 points 4 days ago

Never thought I would say we need to decentralize the Internet

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[-] A_Chilean_Cyborg@feddit.cl 64 points 5 days ago

I'm 22 but i kinda like the vibes of here.

[-] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 51 points 5 days ago

Cool. Can I buy some of your blood?

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[-] Vespair@lemmy.zip 74 points 5 days ago

I don't regret it. I only regret letting the corporations stake their claim without greater pushback.

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[-] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 47 points 4 days ago

And 30+ year old people who enjoyed the good times while they lasted and are now nostalgic?

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[-] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 49 points 5 days ago

I would say I like it here, imo the format and overall technology is perfect. I am always impressed by how little battery and data voyager uses compared to all the other bloated apps on my phone.

Having said that, I am disappointed that even without feeds and algorithms, it has become a lot more rage inducing and depressing then I would have hoped for.

There is just so many things that affect my life in a negative way being shown here, can’t a guy get a little ignorant bliss about nerdy topics? Or long, deep discussions comparing the philosophies of niche hobbies?

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[-] thethrilloftime69@feddit.online 32 points 4 days ago

Did we build the world wide web or did we just shitpost for the lulz for decades without realizing we gave all the benefits of our shitposting to Mark Zuckerberg?

[-] SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml 23 points 4 days ago

Well, we went from shitposting in niche, independently run, forums, to doing it on corporate platforms that spy on you. So I don't think that the shitposting itself is necessarily the issue here

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[-] TomMasz@piefed.social 23 points 4 days ago

It was supposed to make everything better, we were sure of it.

We were horribly wrong. Sorry.

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[-] GenLe@lemmy.ml 19 points 4 days ago

In our defense, corporations ruined the world wide web. It still has so much potential if they weren't involved.

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[-] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

People on here think too highly of themselves and the Fediverse. The overwhelming majority of people here don't know the basics of programming and of the few that do, the vast majority of them don't make any contributions. Even to those who do contribute, comparing themselves or the Fediverse WWW and the people who built it rather arrogant, no?

At the end of the day, the Fediverse would be better off going through a reality check. It's a niche alternative to mainstream social media that trades content for privacy. The tech is neat and the idea behind it is noble, but that's about it. It's not going to revolutionize the internet any time soon.

[-] cosmicrookie@lemmy.world 21 points 4 days ago

The internet itself was once a niche alternative to mainstream knowledge

The way I see it is, that we are all good or even experts at something. The internet is not only about programming alone. The frustration comes from people who 30 years ago spent time discussing and sharing all kinds of knowledge on websites, forums or wikis but now, large corporations charge money to present the same knowledge more conveniently, but not always in the right context

This includes programming, but also gardening, how to ferment cabbage, how to clean a smoking pipe, what to feed guinea pigs.

It is definitely doable, but will take many decades

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[-] hactar42@lemmy.ml 19 points 4 days ago

Hell yeah, my geocities Nine Inch Nails fan site helped build the Internet

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[-] Colloidal@programming.dev 50 points 5 days ago

If we unite, we can regret it again.

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[-] likebudda@reddthat.com 21 points 4 days ago

As a call center employee, the most inexplicably difficult part of my job is asking an older person to navigate to our website. When I give them the 9 letter address, it almost always results in a google search for them and the ordeal of having them try to pick out our website from the sponsored results brings joy to advertisers everywhere.

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[-] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago
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i'm 39 and haven't built shit but the regret is real

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[-] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 32 points 4 days ago

Lemmy feels very gen z ish though.

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[-] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago

I'm 39, thank you very much.

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