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[-] unknownman@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago

This isn't a positive message. This is just stating the obvious, which literally just makes you question the thing. You don't write "Murder is bad." everywhere, do you?

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Trans women are women isn't a positive message?

It's acceptance. It's a bold statement in face of the world that doesn't see trans women as women. It's a welcoming message. It's a reminder that this place is a safe place for trans women as well as cis women.

[-] unknownman@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

To me, not really. It's just stating the obvious. I'm fairly sure almost everyone who's here already knows it and have it as a baseline. So again, who is it for? If one has an opinion on a subject, that means they've already researched the facts and derived their belief from logic. So stating this feels more like a "alright, already knew it though". Constantly stating the obvious makes people doubt themselves, and makes us think "am I missing something?". This post literally just brings argument even though there's nothing to argue about..

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

almost everyone

Well then that's not everyone, is it?

The only one arguing here is you

[-] unknownman@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

Nice straw man.

"Women only trans inclusive" btw.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

Your post history is not a secret btw.

[-] unknownman@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

"Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them."

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

And you have clearly demonstrated that not everyone reads the rules in a community before posting.

So this message, this post, is still relevant for this community.

"Unknownman" - if you don't want to be perceived as a man, don't post that you are a man.

[-] unknownman@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago
[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

You posted 4 days ago that you were a man.

Please respect the rules of this community. If we want to post welcoming messages for transwomen, we're allowed to do so.

[-] unknownman@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

So? Saying "I'm a dude" in *an unrelated post btw) means that you know exactly who I am, and that I'm not included in the "Anyone under the trans umbrella"?? All inclusive space my ass. I express a thought and you're literally stalking my profile, analyzing my name to determine my gender and deciding to exclude me out of a community lmfao

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

You came in here hot under the collar looking for a fight.

That’s not the vibe here regardless of gender.

We don’t have to welcome men in here.

[-] unknownman@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

So what's the vibe here? Stalking someone? Why are you commenting on my posts? Are you going to look trough any database dump just in case my name is in it and try to hack me to figure out where I live? Come on now. Nobody's looking for a fight, literally expressed my opinion and wrote down why that post can be counterintuitive.

[-] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

I'm not really involved in this but what an insane response. Your username and comment history are public and I can look at them with a click.

Anyway, I have you tagged as "man" in my Lemmy client, so ultimately I'd say I'm practically committing identity theft on you right now.

[-] unknownman@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Great straw man. A few things:

  • My profile & posts are completely unrelated to the argument, so there was literally 0 reason to bring it into the argument.

  • Cyberstalking is the use of the Internet or other electronic means to stalk or harass an individual, group, or organization. It may include false accusations so them writing a comment on one of my posts in a completely unrelated community, saying I wrote the post to be able to "harass women", defamation, slander and libel. It may also include monitoring, identity theft, threats, vandalism, solicitation for sex, doxing, or blackmail.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

Yeah man, recognizing usernames on Lemmy is akin to doxxing. You got me.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

For the record, I had upvoted that post you made earlier and recognized you from it. I didn’t have to stalk your post history. I knew what was in it already.

[-] svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

If one has an opinion on a subject, that means they’ve already researched the facts and derived their belief from logic.

Lol. Lmao, even.

[-] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

We have zero tolerance on transphobia, and we're a women only community. Your account is already deleted but i banned it just incase

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