I totally understand, who would like to be a man 😅😅🤣🤣🤣 even men want to be women! Jokes apart, in my real life I never met transwoman, so I am very much curious everything about it. I have heard that it's the way person feels like that is way takes this road. Which I hope for them it's smooth and gentle. P.s. I think it's similar topic to be a mother. Some become moms,some can't, some adopts ,some having hard time to become. But my personal opinion is that if in heart woman wants child, she is already a mom. She has that desire, she acts in certain way with kids ect. Best wishes to all women!
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I dont care what your gender is or who you want to fuck. Everyone is a person and deserves love and respect.
Hear hear! Welcome to WomensStuff we are a trans inclusive women only community and ask cis men don't post 🥰
But apparently not great at aligning graphics.
trans women will never be men!
Okay?....
Was someone here saying we weren't?
Usually when you see a post like this yes, someone was being a transphobic ass. This is shots fired.
Oh, what was the context?
Sometimes the positive message is motive enough to post.
What’s the point in questioning it?
This isn't a positive message. This is just stating the obvious, which literally just makes you question the thing. You don't write "Murder is bad." everywhere, do you?
Trans women are women isn't a positive message?
It's acceptance. It's a bold statement in face of the world that doesn't see trans women as women. It's a welcoming message. It's a reminder that this place is a safe place for trans women as well as cis women.
To me, not really. It's just stating the obvious. I'm fairly sure almost everyone who's here already knows it and have it as a baseline. So again, who is it for? If one has an opinion on a subject, that means they've already researched the facts and derived their belief from logic. So stating this feels more like a "alright, already knew it though". Constantly stating the obvious makes people doubt themselves, and makes us think "am I missing something?". This post literally just brings argument even though there's nothing to argue about..
We have zero tolerance on transphobia, and we're a women only community. Your account is already deleted but i banned it just incase
almost everyone
Well then that's not everyone, is it?
The only one arguing here is you
Nice straw man.
"Women only trans inclusive" btw.
Your post history is not a secret btw.
"Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them."
And you have clearly demonstrated that not everyone reads the rules in a community before posting.
So this message, this post, is still relevant for this community.
"Unknownman" - if you don't want to be perceived as a man, don't post that you are a man.
Maybe google up the name.
You posted 4 days ago that you were a man.
Please respect the rules of this community. If we want to post welcoming messages for transwomen, we're allowed to do so.
So? Saying "I'm a dude" in *an unrelated post btw) means that you know exactly who I am, and that I'm not included in the "Anyone under the trans umbrella"?? All inclusive space my ass. I express a thought and you're literally stalking my profile, analyzing my name to determine my gender and deciding to exclude me out of a community lmfao
You came in here hot under the collar looking for a fight.
That’s not the vibe here regardless of gender.
We don’t have to welcome men in here.
So what's the vibe here? Stalking someone? Why are you commenting on my posts? Are you going to look trough any database dump just in case my name is in it and try to hack me to figure out where I live? Come on now. Nobody's looking for a fight, literally expressed my opinion and wrote down why that post can be counterintuitive.
I'm not really involved in this but what an insane response. Your username and comment history are public and I can look at them with a click.
Anyway, I have you tagged as "man" in my Lemmy client, so ultimately I'd say I'm practically committing identity theft on you right now.
Great straw man. A few things:
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My profile & posts are completely unrelated to the argument, so there was literally 0 reason to bring it into the argument.
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Cyberstalking is the use of the Internet or other electronic means to stalk or harass an individual, group, or organization. It may include false accusations
so them writing a comment on one of my posts in a completely unrelated community, saying I wrote the post to be able to "harass women", defamation, slander and libel. It may also include monitoring, identity theft, threats, vandalism, solicitation for sex, doxing, or blackmail.
Yeah man, recognizing usernames on Lemmy is akin to doxxing. You got me.
For the record, I had upvoted that post you made earlier and recognized you from it. I didn’t have to stalk your post history. I knew what was in it already.
If one has an opinion on a subject, that means they’ve already researched the facts and derived their belief from logic.
Lol. Lmao, even.
idk, it's just the fact you have to say it implies it's not obviously true
Like "black men are men" sounds like "I wasn't thinking they weren't, but now I'm questioning it"
A lot of people are questioning, out loud, whether trans people even deserve to exist right now.
So yes, the message that trans women are women is an important one and might bring some comfort to someone as they're browsing.
But are they questioning it here? I thought this was supposed to be a safe space where trans women being women was just common knowledge
Idk maybe I'm being stupid, it came off the wrong way to me, but I'm sure it is helping people :3
I enjoy positive messages in safe spaces. It's a nice affirmation that the people here in this community are welcoming of trans women. Not all women's groups are welcoming in that way.
I don't think you're being stupid! I think maybe you're being a little cynical or pessimistic, which I can understand with gestures at everything in the world rn
You're absolutely right. There's 0 need to post this. It's stating the obvious, who's this meant for? It definitely feels like someone's beliefs crumbling so they have to keep telling themselves the thing because they don't truly believe it, they're starting to doubt it.
Have you read the rules for this community?
Why exactly? Yes.
https://sh.itjust.works/post/64965663
I’m a dude, but damn, this situation kinda vexes me.
Because 4 days ago you were a dude. And now you're here in a women's only group trying to police what we post about and how we make sure our fellow women feel welcome.
Amen 🙌