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Today I posted a picture of a stamp with an animal in it and they said the picture contained nudity and made me take it down, but I reported a photo of a guy with a fully visible swastika tattoo and they said that's fine.

I'd like to start a Lemmy community with photos of stuff that they refuse to remove called FacebookSaysItsFine.

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[–] hamster@kbin.social 76 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Just delete your account, stop using it.

[–] shootwhatsmyname@lemm.ee 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

but what other honest and trustworthy corporation do I give all this valuable personally-identifiable information to?

[–] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I promise if you give it to me it will be secure since I am such a failure of a person I will lose it.

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Can you send me page after page of ads and sprinkle in people in third world countries making street food or doing some jank trade work?

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[–] ginerel@kbin.social 39 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I remember I made a Kurt Cobain reference as a joke, and Facebook said I was breaking the rules against suicide or whatever.

Yeah, the same Facebook that was totally fine with an actual violent video I reported

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

The governments should break up Facebook. It needs to be held accountable.

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[–] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 33 points 1 year ago (6 children)

The good people left Facebook a long time ago. I would even argue before the place was taken over by boomers.

I think ultimately, it was the share functionality that ruined Facebook, because it was once the place where you keep up with your friends, but then the genuineness of it is gone after you realize they only see their friends as a captive audience to get likes and get a boost for their Farmvilles.

It's a dehumanizing place, which is why it became a wasteland.

[–] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I distinctly remember back in 2010 right before I deleted my Facebook, everytime I logged in I would get depressed and sad.

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[–] can@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Do it, make the community. I'd subscribe. This post got lots of traction. There's an audience.

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[–] eee@lemm.ee 26 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Why so much anger? Just stop using it. Apathy is better than anger.

I can't even remember when I logged into fb last.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I hate that an important tool that we could use for simple socialization and sharing of interests is instead in the hands of people who want to sow disinformation and right wing propaganda. To me, making Nazis ostracized is a value we should all share.

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[–] yoz@aussie.zone 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I think only baby boomers are using facebook now. None of my friends are on fb hence the conclusion.

[–] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Facebook market place has completely broken and laid waste to all of its competitors. Every woman with kids I know is using it to buy and sell and give away children stuff.

[–] JudahBenHur@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

not in Ireland. Adverts.ie rules the day here, thank god.

Freecycle.org is also still active in most places.

People will go where the stuff is. So, when I have anything of value, I take it to anywhere but Facebook, cause, ya know, you gotta put stuff in the other places

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[–] HipHoboHarold@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This was why I left. Last straw was me getting banned for a week because I called someone an asshole for openly calling for violence against trans people. I reported their comment as well.

Mine got me banned. Facebook said they were fine.

I sometimes feel like I should have a tinfoil hat on, but I'm honestly willing to bet that wite supremacy groups got members to get jobs at social media companies to purposefully let them get through the system.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Sure. I totally agree. Your basic clean cut fash in tech jobs. It's disgusting.

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[–] YurkshireLad@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 year ago

A few years ago, someone my daughter knew from school was posting pictures of her cuts from self harm on Instagram. I reported it to instagram but they didn't do anything about it.

[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The problem with unlimited free speech is that it lets the worst people be free to be even worse yet. There is no such thing as ethical absolutism of any kind; it's just extremism in a flashier suit, and extreme is by its very nature hostile because it can be used to justify literally anything. Especially by true believers.

[–] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Every few years someone gets the idea of creating an internet absolute free speech zone and a few months later figures out why it is a terrible idea. It is never people from vicious dictatorships sharing messages about freedom. It is always child porn, scams, spam, and Nazis plotting terrorist attacks.

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[–] Pat12@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

i only keep it because some friends died a while ago and it's the only trace i have of them left

[–] shortwizard@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

that's extremely tragic

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[–] jacktherippah@lemdro.id 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (8 children)

Ugh. I would love to stop using it but I need it for school. My college regularly posts information on Facebook groups instead of its own websites and I need Messenger for communication/group work in college.

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[–] gamey@feddit.rocks 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I kind of like that idea, do we have any Twitter users here to do something like that too?

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh please Twitter should be fed to the sharks.

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[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can we feed chunks of reddit into it too?

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[–] leotonius@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have been extremely addicted to Facebook for a very long time, even though I knew it was a cesspool. The main thing that had kept me there, was that I was running a photography business on the side, and Facebook was unfortunately a great way for clients to find me and reach out to me. I've started on a different adventure, and it was so incredibly freeing to blast my Facebook account away yesterday.

I do still miss seeing live updates for the people that I care most about, but Facebook can definitely get fucked, and definitely should die.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Good for you. I hope it feels great.

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[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

How would I know what people's wordle scores are then?

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[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I mean... you're not wrong, but it's like you're breathlessly telling us about this incredible new thing you've discovered called the internet.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Do you want to talk about Livejournal? I had one.

[–] BeigeAgenda@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Not that modern stuff let's talk about Geocities! 🚧

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[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Years ago I noticed a picture my niece had liked that was a couple of her friends jumping on their bed in only underwear. The girls were probably 11 or 12 so I reported it as inappropriate. A few days later Facebook replied to my request that the pictures were not against the TOS. I couldn't fuckin believe that. I encouraged my niece to suggest that the pictures be removed before a pervert found them. That was what finally worked but I suspect those girls probably thought I was the pervert.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

You're a good uncle. Facebook literally said a picture of a woman's coochie was fine to me once last month.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I have a couple of reasons I still use Facebook, although I don't like it at all: My brother, who lives on the other side of the country, has ASD and the only two ways I could stay in touch with him is on Quora, where he only wants to stay on-topic, or Facebook. And I'm at least an hour's drive away from most of the people I know, so it's also one of the only ways I keep in touch with them, because they apparently don't have the problem with Facebook I do.

That said, I block every ad even though I have to do it manually, and I don't join any groups, other than a couple that I just read for the comic strips, or argue with strangers. I keep my Facebook use to a minimum, essentially.

Edit: I take that back. I didn't block the ad for the build-your-own wooden hurdy-gurdy kit. How could I?

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[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Can we see that smoking hot stamp in question?

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[–] Godric@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

"I hate Facebook"

Why Would You Say Something So Controversial Yet So Brave?

[–] WheeGeetheCat@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can we not abandon facebook to be reclaimed by nature? I haven't been on that site in years

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

It'll be overrun with broken links to terrible fake news and Minions memes as it slowly rots into the earth.

[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

I searched for a community named "FacebookSaysItsFine" and haven't yet seen anything.

Be the change you want to see in the world!

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 year ago

Delete your account.

Reach out to the people you only talk to through Facebook and give them your contact information.

It'll be awkward and you might lose some people, but every person who quits makes it easier for everyone else to quit. Quitting is better for your health and happiness.

[–] Rolando@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I believe it's difficult to fire things into the sun because of gravitational dynamics. It'd apparently be easier to fire Facebook into interstellar space.

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[–] Leeps@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I reported a meme from a prominent anti EU group a while back in which they were calling the leader of Ireland a leprechaun. Complete with a photoshop of him in a green suit and everything. Extremely racist, but apparently fine.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I'm convinced all their mods are Patriot Front.

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