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Wdym take my own advice? That's not how this works

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[-] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 76 points 3 weeks ago

Any female born after 1993 can't cook. All they know is:

[-] Nouvellalia@lemmy.world 88 points 3 weeks ago
  • Drink water
  • ADHD medication
  • Transition
[-] Feidry@sh.itjust.works 43 points 3 weeks ago
  • Charge they phone

  • Eat hot chip

  • Lie

[-] vocornflakes@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago
  • Be bisexual
[-] Lumidaub@feddit.org 53 points 3 weeks ago
[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 34 points 3 weeks ago

The beatings will continue until morale improves

[-] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago

I've been meaning to get a sign like that for my dungeon (when I can have one!)

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I really wish I foresaw having a home dungeon anytime soon… and yeah it's a classic sign for them

[-] Wild_Mastic@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

Good luck and have fun

[-] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 4 points 3 weeks ago

Doesn't that require at least one consenting partner though?

So if someone already feels irretrievably doomed, it's kinda like telling them "Just find someone who loves you and is willing to try kinky stuff with you that usually scares a majority of people."

[-] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 weeks ago

with a caring partner, yes. There are plenty of bad actors in the community unfortunately. Being part of munches and social events helps reduce them as most chuds don't have the patience.

[-] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 45 points 3 weeks ago

Too late, I transitioned, and now I breast boobily with my tits out front. Also my boobs were there. I still exist though.

[-] Epp@lemmus.org 28 points 3 weeks ago

Having boobs is excellent justification for continued existence.

[-] NinePeedles@sh.itjust.works 11 points 3 weeks ago

I've heard data build tool (dbt) is super powerful for data engineering.

[-] Wfh@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 weeks ago

It is!

But Jinja syntax sucks ass. At least you can do some powerful macro fuckery standard SQL could only dream of.

[-] superduperpirate@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

I wonder if the DBT was supposed to be CBT

[-] Epp@lemmus.org 28 points 3 weeks ago

Deep breath therapy and cock & ball torture are wildly different, but perhaps they can be combined into a single activity that is far more effective than either on its own. 🤔

[-] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 weeks ago

Well controlled breathing seems important in child birth and that's painful so it would either help or make both less effective

[-] CelloMike@lemmy.world 15 points 3 weeks ago

Looked it up - dialectical behaviour therapy, apparently

[-] aeiou@piefed.social 6 points 3 weeks ago

instructions unclear, gave myself deep brain thrombosis

[-] possumparty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

do you still have both of your shoes on? if so, then you're good 👍🏻

[-] superduperpirate@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah I was wondering maybe they meant cognitive behavioral therapy?

[-] Lumidaub@feddit.org 8 points 3 weeks ago

Both CBT and DBT are types of therapy that exist, so I see no reason to assume whoever wrote this didn't mean what they wrote.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

Probably not. DBT is based off CBT but has some additional elements that can be super helpful for some people.

My wife is currently in it for PTSD and it's doing things for her that CBT would struggle with. It can also do everything CBT does, speaking as someone who had great benefits from CBT.

[-] superduperpirate@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

I wasn’t aware of DBT as a therapy form until this comment chain, honestly, so I think I saw the original and assumed it was intended to be CBT but a typo got in the way.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah it's less well known, I mostly originally knew about it because of my history of interaction with folks who have borderline personality disorder (it was originally developed to treat it). And yeah one of the really big things it does that cbt doesn't is working on emotional control with stuff like building distress tolerance.

It's definitely no fun, my wife is really not enjoying it, but it is really helping her.

I generally encourage anyone whose struggling with destructive thoughts/behavior or ptsd to give it a consideration

[-] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Yep yep!

CBT has worked very well for me and my (C)PTSD... its essentially a westernized version of the core of some Zen practices, sort of.

And yep, DBT is a sort of variant/evolution of DBT that involves different techniques, different sort of schedule... and apparently uses ... essentially 'stronger' sort of human hacks, basically, that can bring calm and help build internal structure/stability, via what I'd call funny quirks of human neuro-physiology, as well as basically being a structured space to process older traumas / intense emotions in.

CBT and DBT are also neat in that they are actually considerably empirically verified to actually work in their use cases, and at least CBT, hell I think nearly anyone who is frequently just stressed out could be helped by learning CBT, being taken through a few rounds of it till you can learn how to do it yourself.

A more qualified write up here:

https://www.choosingtherapy.com/dbt-vs-cbt/

[-] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago

Dialectics saved my marriage and probably my life

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah from everything I've heard from folks who need it it's absolutely life-changing. My wife is definitely not enjoying it, but after only a few months we're seeing real improvements beyond what talk therapy had done for her (it had also been helpful).

And that's just for ptsd, a former friend with bpd went from destructive to themselves and those around them to significantly less so (they were still in treatment when we wound up going in different directions).

[-] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

transpidgeon

I think they did

[-] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

This is your future in 4-day workweek leftists want!

[-] yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 weeks ago

reverse order... pardon my ignorance, I'm aware of TBD and msdb, then what's D nimativ and DHDA?

[-] HerbGrower@slrpnk.net 5 points 3 weeks ago

No, that is the order it is written, that is the order you must commit!

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

Either 7 or 8 of these absolutely did fix me (it was CBT, not DBT). And yeah I went pretty much in order

[-] TheOakTree@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Cock and Ball Torture was that transformative for you?

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

Well for me the real torture was having them

[-] TheOakTree@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 weeks ago

Well played well played

[-] takeda@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Ok, I guess I'm missing the plot, but how posts like this one (I'm inside this ass example, I actually see a lot of other posts do it) matches "me in real life" format? Which one of the 5 people there are you?

[-] Lumidaub@feddit.org 3 points 3 weeks ago

All of them.

Don't take the "me in real life" too literally, it's a mix of "this is SO fucking relatable" and shitposting.

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 3 weeks ago

"I see here you've listed... Debit?"

"Oh no, that's 'da butt.' I also enjoy tennis."

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