I've actually been told this by my bf, that a cock that curves upwards hits the G-spot way easier, so it's actually a benefit.
Not like it affects me tho, cause I'm not cis and I'll probably never have cis anatomy...
Being trans kinda sucks :P
If it curves the other way just turn her around
Totally agree! Being turned around is fun :3
Discourse about curves used to make me super insecure, it sucks to hear that one’s thing points opposite to the “desired” direction. Nowadays it feels extremely superficial, because if you pay attention to your partner it really doesn’t matter what you’ve got. People are so different and varied that any partner is basically a whole different experience.
It is superficial af. At least to me, my partner's personality traits are waaaay more important than what their dick is like. The only thing I care about is that they actually have a dick lol, no other requirements.
This is just a silly meme. Curves are absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.
Also, just saying but...if your curves in the opposite direction...you can theoretically just flip your partner around?
Funny enough, no partner I’ve had ever asked for a position based on my shape. And from my experience, the vibe of a position plus the kind of movement does far more, it’s not like the tip has to do all the work, there’s an entire body behind it ;)
That's true tho! The vibe of the position is (imho) one of the most important aspects. The vibe of the movements as well, you're totally right!
NSFW, very TMI
There's a massive difference in vibes in, for example, doggystyle and missionary.
I'll use me and my bf as an example. What did you expect? 😆
Missionary it's almost romantic, face to face, kissing, slow and steady movements (sometimes), but with the option to really go for it and watch as I squirm underneath, blush, make sounds and smile back at him. Also, the vibes of the entire movement are more...rounded?? It's not simply backwards-forwards. And that affects the angle and which spots he hits.
Is gooood :3
Doggy tho...
That's just like honestly the best position, don't care what anyone thinks. It's almost like...idk, I guess I'd say primal mating? No human concepts like love, kissing or being face to face, no such things. The movements are, again, different. This one I feel is more backwards-forwards, but sometimes he tries a bit of up and down. It feels alright, but he can't be as rough as he usually is in that position, and I prefer the roughness lol. And as a bonus, he can grab onto me for stability (waist or hips work), which allows him to be even rougher with me. And indeed, there probably isn't a position allowing as much roughness as doggy, at least for us.
And just...idk, something about being on all fours and just taking it. Being unable to do much else, having someone hold you in place and completely ravish you. Being fucked so roughly that you're sore right after. Exposing your entire body, back, shoulders, butt and everything else to your partner. Letting him spank you, pull your hair and whisper into your ear. Fucking like two animals, not even humans anymore.
Fuuuuuck, that's what I'm into. Doggystyle is literally my love language lol
Yes, I wrote an essay on sex. Yes, I went places. No, I don't feel bad at all. Thanks for giving me the opportunity, kind stranger 😂
Enjoy 💜
You want the best sex ever? Here you go, connect with your partner emotionally and listen to their needs. It will blow your mind and load!
Eh, best we can offer is selfish sex where nobody gets what they need and everybody gets what they don't want.
We wonder why the world is falling apart. No one cares about anyone else. Dog eat dog...we all die
As a cis dude, do dudes get self conscious about their dick curves?
I've sucked a lot of dick, and I've never had a dude express self confidence about a curve, nor have I ever been disappointed because it did or did not curve.
Although, that one dude that curved left made giving him a blowjob hard. Had to do from the side to get it in my throat lol
I'm not sure tbh. They always mention the size tho, whether self-confidently or...not, lol
Although, that one dude that curved left made giving him a blowjob hard
I can imagine...I guess you got some skill to be able to manage that 😆
I've sucked a lot of dick
Obligatory counter-boast: So have I :3
Definitely not as much as you, but still. I know what I'm doing
NSFW, TMI
I'll never stop talking about this, but...
The proudest I've ever been of myself is when my boyfriend told me that I give better oral sex than all of his past 3 girlfriends. And he's only been with cis women before me :3
I know that this isn't a cis/trans thing, or even necessarily a woman thing, but it still made me light up like a Christmas tree 😂
Nice! It's maybe a weird thing to be proud of, but I totally get it. I'm proud of my skill. Haha
Also, how do we know not as much as me? Has my slutty reputation gone so far that Lemmy knows my body count?lol
There are definitely worse things to be proud of 😂
About your body count, I'm just assuming. For how much I talk about this stuff, my body count isn't that high. Don't know if I should be proud of that or not...
I think we should all be proud of our body counts, high or low. Either you're a prolific fucker, or you're a discerning fucker. By that count, even someone who's never fucked can be a fucker. And isn't that what it's all about? Lol.
Also, profilic fucker makes me think of Laszlo from What We Do in the Shadows
Maybe if it's like peyronie's tier, but that's just a medical issue.
It still works if it's curved down, depebeing on position.
Yessss, position is super important :3
I typically use a strap unless I'm getting oral, so it typically always curves upward lol
Combined with the technique of the rocking motion instead of straight thrusting means you will have the best sex. I only know this in theory though, but I'm almost at wizard rank, so I'm definitely trustworthy!
the prostate is also on the top :3
Is that why...? OwO
I'm so ignorant 😭
I see now...
I was wondering why missionary felt different, in a good way. Huh...thanks! 💜
Uh I had bottom surgery and that's where my sweet spot is.
Really?? 👀
Damn, I still have lots to learn about SRS. Not like I'm gonna change my mind tho. I hope there are no problems with Suporn...
Thanks for the info. This is making me look forward to it even more 🩷
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