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Being 20 rule (lemmy.nz)

Oh god I'm 20...maybe it really is because of my age 😆
Maybe my age is to blame. It's not my fault I'm this way! /s

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[-] zqps@sh.itjust.works 4 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Hilarious. This has even more potential by mirroring the dialogue on (or next to) the bottom.

[-] Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zip 19 points 1 day ago

Miisha and horny go together like Americans and apple pie similes.

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago

Omg that's the biggest compliment ever I'm so honored 😭
Literally, tysm! 💜
You have no idea how happy this association makes me, lol.

[-] Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

I'm ade to affirm genders and horniness.

[-] Slovene85@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

Is this Violet's account? 🤔

[-] Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago
[-] RichardDegenne@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 day ago
[-] Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

Yeah but who is she and why am I her?

[-] RichardDegenne@lemmy.zip 5 points 23 hours ago

Violet_08 was the uncontested queen of Lemmy hornyposting for a while.

[-] Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zip 2 points 19 hours ago
[-] Slovene85@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

No, I was saying if miisha was violet because of all the hornyposting.

[-] Exulion@lemmy.world 35 points 1 day ago

I mean that was probably what the mom was like too.

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 day ago

LOL YOU'RE BRUTAL 😭
Probably tho... :3

[-] KernelTale@programming.dev 28 points 1 day ago

5 posts about having sex in 44 minutes

[-] LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 day ago

Singlehandedly taking over the horny posting from Violet.

Yes. Singlehandedly.

[-] Seralth@piefed.seralth.com 4 points 1 day ago

Someone has to do it might as well be them!

[-] LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works 1 points 13 hours ago

Hey, I'm not complaining.

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 day ago

Welcome to my life 🩷
My brain runs on prog, my boobs run on E 😂
Something, something, something, horny

[-] MagicPterodactyl@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

Good for her

[-] bloomnolia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 day ago

Top: This is your brain

Bottom: This is your brain on PROGESTERONE :3

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

That's totally correct, actually 😂
Pre-prog I was damn near ace. Now? Well...
On the bed, face pushed into in pillow, drooling and blushing violently and begging for it, while also thinking about the life choices that led me down this path... /s
But hey...getting railed is pretty cool :3

Cheers! clinks prog

ur prog is clinky? my prog is in squishy pills

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 21 hours ago

Mine is too, I was just joking. Clink as in, how people clink glasses together when they say cheers. It was admittedly a dumb joke

[-] OmegaMouse@pawb.social 13 points 1 day ago

Sometimes I wonder if I've let my parents down not being in a straight relationship/having kids

Then again I'm pretty happy in my current situation so :3

[-] BurntBlueberry@literature.cafe 6 points 1 day ago

Your happiness is whats important here.

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago

Awwww 🥺
If it makes you feel any better, there are many straight people in straight relationships that straight up can't have kids. I don't know if I exactly count, but...yeah.
You're not a letdown. And you're happy, that's the most important part 💜

[-] OmegaMouse@pawb.social 7 points 1 day ago

Ahh I say it half tongue in cheek! I'm not sure I'd want kids even if I was straight to be honest. In any case being queer and open is way more fun

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago

In any case being queer and open is way more fun

I guess I can't argue with you there ;3

[-] RepleteLocum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago

Are you actually in your twenties? I'm approaching it and I'm scared that e won't "work" soon. I still have to get a bunch of paperwork done and that's prolly going to take half a year if not more.

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago

Yes, I'm actually 20 😔

Nonsense, E will work for you. I started at 19 and it's kinda working. I don't know your situation, but I'm rooting for you 🩷

May I ask how old you are? You don't have to answer. I'm just curious

[-] RepleteLocum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

19 and soon 20. It's just scary thinking about it not working as good as on a person who's still growing.

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 21 hours ago

Nah, you're fine. I started HRT at 19 and 10 months. I started seeking it out the official way 6 months prior. Long wait times...
At the beginning, I thought I had it good. I thought I had started super early, that I was gonna get super lucky, that my pelvis would widen...well, the dysphoria kicked in. I started seeing all the damage that T has done to me. The damage that is irreversible. And I didn't feel so lucky anymore, with people here that started at 17, 16 or earlier.

But I'll tell you this. I don't regret starting. Not even a little bit. The only thing I regret is not starting earlier. And so, I guess I'm actually glad I started when I did. I'm glad I didn't put it off by years and regret it later. And I'm absolutely loving what HRT has been doing for me. In the first couple of months, I was damn sure it was the right thing for me. Super smooth skin, man musk gone, greatly decreased erections, much less oily skin and hair and tiny breast buds, the start of actual, real girl boobs...this is me.

I can't tell you if you want it or not. I really can't. But, I can recommend starting as soon as you can. Repressing and putting it off is unfortunately super common for trans people, but it's not ideal. The regret later on is crushing. I could have started at 14 and it's the biggest regret of my life that I didn't...
And please don't fall into the trap of "I won't pass, so what's the point?". Nobody knows if you will pass or not and frankly, it's not the most important thing in the world. Transitioning will alleviate dysphoria and make you more comfortable in your own body. It will make your body...more you. I know I won't pass. Still, I'm never stopping HRT, I'd literally rather die. And you might think you won't pass now, but repressing and waiting to start won't solve that, in fact, it will only make it worse. There will be more years of irreversible T damage done to your body. And, at least for me...that's existentially crushing.
You're actually quite early. You're totally fine 💜

You'll figure it out 🩷
Best of luck!
I'm here if you need anything.

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

FYI: You can still be a parent. You can have it all if that is what you want.

how 2 make pregnant parent without a cis woman?

[-] gegil@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 day ago

Being 20, is not about the age, it is about a state of life.

The passage of time has no power over my willingness of being 20 f o r e v e r

[-] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago
[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago
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