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I have been with mine for 2 years <33 My beloved.

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[-] bunkyprewster@startrek.website 11 points 11 months ago
[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 months ago

Nice. I thought my 1991 was old but you're doing very well.

[-] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 8 points 11 months ago

33 years, our 31st anniversary is in November.

[-] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 11 months ago

Partnered for 8yrs 4mo
lived together 8yrs 9mo
known each other 8yrs 10mo

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

Met in 1984. Engaged around 1986. Various hardships ensued. Purchased house together in 2000. Married in 2004. Kid in 2009.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 11 months ago

if I'm reading this right, you hooked up with your roommate? That's a bold strategy, Cotton.

[-] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 11 months ago

Yep! My best friend's sister, too ๐Ÿ˜…

[-] SourGrapez@piefed.social 7 points 11 months ago
[-] olivergarden@piefed.social 6 points 11 months ago
[-] 0_0j@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Shit. Y'all too sweet to be real

[-] MxRemy@piefed.social 6 points 11 months ago

One partner 8 years, the other 4. Still just as deeply in as love!

[-] Zagam@piefed.social 6 points 11 months ago

Together for 22 years, married for 15.

[-] spongebue@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

I was going to say that's a long time, then I realized I'm not too far behind! 18/13 for us.

[-] Zagam@piefed.social 2 points 11 months ago

Shit goes fast yo. Like Tom Waits says- Fall in love and get married then boom; How the hell did I get here so soon?

[-] geekwithsoul@piefed.social 6 points 11 months ago

32 years ๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿป

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

19ยฝ years

[-] Fondots@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

Coming up on 7 years married, probably about another 2 maybe 3 years together (she seems to think we were dating for a while before I realized it, I'm kind of dense)

We were friends for probably about another 2 or 3 years before that, and for probably about that long again before that we kind of recognized each other as friends-of-friends but only ever bumped into each other in-passing and didn't hang out.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 11 months ago

April 29, 2009

We met two days before. Three months later we were engaged, a year after that we were married. No regrets.

[-] HubertManne@piefed.social 5 points 11 months ago

Bit over 25 years.

[-] cute_noker@feddit.dk 5 points 11 months ago

7 years. Time flies..

[-] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

Together for a little over 9 years, married for about a year! ๐Ÿ˜

[-] FlembleFabber@sh.itjust.works 5 points 11 months ago

1 week now, lol

[-] relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club 5 points 11 months ago

together for 4 days I think??

[-] juliebean@lemmy.zip 5 points 11 months ago

i envy ya'll with concrete dates. my partner and i have been together somewhere around 10 years. we've been talking off and on about getting officially married, partly to have a precise anniversary lol

[-] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

You can just choose a day and go with it. As long as both of you agree, and it's approximate it's fine. We just count earth going around the sun, it's divided arbitrarily, and Earth's never going to be in exact place anyway.

[-] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

Yeah, at some point I just chose my cat's birthday since we only had a ballpark age from the shelter.

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[-] just_ducky_in_NH@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

41 years. We got engaged two months after we met, married five months after engagement, and are still going strong!

[-] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 4 points 11 months ago

We've been married eleven years, but together for about twenty three. He's still putting up with me, it's wild!

[-] AlternateRoute@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 months ago

25 years, or at least by the date we sort of agree on the first year is a little fuzzy lol.

[-] klemptor@startrek.website 4 points 11 months ago

It'll be 25 years this week!

[-] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 3 points 11 months ago

10 years since June and getting married this coming September 27th

[-] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

Together for 16, married for 11 or 12

[-] Vinny_93@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

11 years, married for 2.5

[-] Botzo@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Our first official date was opening night for the Nic Cage movie The Family Man. Married 3.5 years later.

[-] sunbeam60@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 months ago

Coming up to 20 years, 17 years married.

[-] Awa@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

27 years together, 24 married

[-] fossman2112@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 months ago

Started dating right after 9/11, not married until 2014. Still together.

[-] BananaPeal@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago

We're hitting 10 years married this October! 11 years together.

[-] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Coming up on 6 years in October!

[-] PetteriPano@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

13 years. Married for 6.

First two years were mostly long-distance.

[-] Saprophyte@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

15 years together, married 13 next month.

[-] Laukatt@piefed.social 2 points 11 months ago

11 years ๐Ÿฅฐ we are both 29 years old

[-] AmourDeFrance@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago
[-] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 months ago

Holy shit y'all make my relationship feel young. 5.75 yrs

[-] DaniNatrix@leminal.space 2 points 11 months ago

5 years! We're not really sure of the exact date cause ADHDยฒ lol we go with October cause shopping for Halloween decorations was our first date ๐ŸŽƒ

[-] martijndevrieze@europe.pub 2 points 11 months ago

22 years, been married for ~18 by now... Married twice, to the same woman, first time for the paperwork (that was called a Registered partnership, legally the same as marriage, with a slight difference in the type of "contract"), second time (actual marriage) for the party. Second wedding was 15 years ago

[-] ghost_towels@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

20 years this Christmas, married for 15. Still my favourite person to putter around with.

[-] Yeahigotskills2@lemmy.ml 1 points 11 months ago

15 years, married for 13.

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