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“You thought you’d get away with this. I am in your car. I am in your maps,” he shouted at her, according to the police records.

Over the coming days, Stacey found that the parental control profile, to which she had no access, could almost entirely control the car, including its speed, climate control, lock and curfew hours, determining when the car could be driven.

Between 6 and 12 November 2025, Pucci remotely alternated the car’s temperature setting between extremely cold and extremely hot.

“The victim has not been able to drive certain speeds and on most recent occasions throughout this period, [the accused] has turned on ‘Valet Mode’ which immediately reduces the speed to 40km per hour causing significant safety issues for the victim on the road”, the police documents stated.

“The victim has not had any control of her vehicle since she noticed the parental control profile added on the 1st November 2025.

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[-] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 145 points 6 days ago

the parental control [...] could almost entirely control the car, including its speed

They assume kids in the driver seat who need to be controlled? How weird is that??

[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 100 points 6 days ago

It's wild to me the extent of control that hides under remote capabilities for Tesla. I could never drive one of these knowing it.

[-] GalacticRobot@lemmy.world 29 points 6 days ago

Basically all modern vehicles unfortunately.

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[-] CosmoNova@lemmy.world 44 points 6 days ago

Super unnecessary and dystopian. If you‘re a minor with a driving license your parent should either be by your side or you know what you‘re doing since you have a drivers license. If those systems fail you need a better system rather than parental control software in a vehicle.

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[-] minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 59 points 5 days ago

The fact these controls exist at all is a fucking nightmare. How are these vehicles legally sold? This technology should illegal I'm vehicles.

[-] Telorand@reddthat.com 22 points 5 days ago

To paraphrase Strong Bad: "Your [car] has too much computer in it...and not enough typewriter."

[-] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 8 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I love seeing strong bad references in the wild!

Virus equals very yes? Computer over?! What does that mean?!

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[-] minfapper@piefed.social 10 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I hate to break it to you, but most modern cars have this level of remote controls - they're just not exposed to owners.

https://www.wired.com/2015/07/hackers-remotely-kill-jeep-highway/

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[-] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 54 points 6 days ago

Musk should have to write a check for $1 billion to her.

I'm not kidding. That's how we have to punish billionaires. Every infraction is a minimum $1 billion payout to each person.

[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 22 points 6 days ago

I'm with you. I wish we lived in a world where these rich bastards were being held meaningfully accountable.

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[-] rumba@lemmy.zip 11 points 6 days ago

He owes her 10 million and pays 2 billion dollar in taxes

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[-] nanometer1625@thelemmy.club 23 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

What the hell? Why hasn't she changed her password yet?

Aha, the article explains:

After having trouble navigating the technology, Stacey was offered help from Pucci, who said he would need the car to be registered in his name so “he could take control of the Tesla app to ‘assist her’”.

[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago

the scammers playbook

[-] HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 5 days ago

This is why we reset our vehicles when an employee leaves. Probably should do the same when you have a messy breakup.

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[-] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 16 points 5 days ago

Remember kids, if you give full control of you car to someone else you will have a bad time.

[-] crashfrog@lemmy.world 11 points 5 days ago

Remember, Tesla added this feature after widespread demand for parental controls on use following an incident in which a teenager killed themselves by driving too fast. People asked why they couldn’t override the car with parental controls if that feature was a technical possibility and there was even talk of using legal force to make them do it if they didn’t voluntarily comply.

Tesla requiring proof that the limited account belonged to a minor was not going to be permitted. Parents did this to us.

[-] impairedimperator@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 days ago

I doubt it was parents. It was probably the same people that run all the parents rights groups: fundamental Christian extremists.

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[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

this is how so many marriages end with abusers.

but ok...i guess we just blame the victims for abusers who own the ultimate choice over their own behaviour

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[-] bl4ckp1xx13@lemmy.dbzer0.com 34 points 6 days ago

Oh look another reason for my "reasons to not buy modern cars" pile.

[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 34 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Made a video about this story for my channel this week, but it's just a good reminder to be extra-cautious with anything that can be operated remotely: Revoke unauthorized profiles, change passwords often, check for hidden profiles, etc. If you don't know how to do that yourself, go to the dealership and get help.

[-] thisbenzingring@lemmy.today 26 points 6 days ago
[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago
[-] thisbenzingring@lemmy.today 17 points 6 days ago

Totally. Thankfully his girls are normal and don't seem to have a lot of baggage from it. One of them is a very successful beautician that recently did the hair and makeup for one of the stars of the 50th SNL celebration. She looks like she could be a movie star herself.

Rob was a master manipulator yet somehow I never fell for it and it drove a wedge between us to the point that I wouldn't be invited to family events. Funny how standing up to a bully will make the bully run away.

One time he made another one of my nieces cry by being cruel with words and calling her ugly (she was 13 and that is not fucking cool to do to a 13 year old) and it made me so upset. I yelled at him and confronted him. Anyway a few moments into the argument he acts like he wants to fight me and I step up to him and he goes and runs and hides behind my sister, knowing that I would not hurt her to get to him. Such a coward. The world is a better place without him.

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[-] myyass@lemmy.world 18 points 5 days ago

This is why I like my old Jeep. It's manual. It's got great "security". I always say it's got an alarm system; because any small time thief would yell out of frustration. When I travel, I pull out the clutch pedal and take fuel relay out and unplug the battery and leave it in 4lo lol. Oh yeah and you have to unplug the clutch pedal fuse for it to start. If the battery has been unplugged, then you got remap the ECU which takes like a half hour of my shovel wedged against the gas pedal unless you want the engine stalling out every time you take your foot of the pedal. It's also one of the rare colors, as in only 2000 made with dicks, I'm very childish, carved in hard to see spots to make it a nightmare for part thieves. So if you steal it, pretty much with a tow truck, it's like putting a bullseye on yourself.

The point was, there's no controlling that. I don't like all the new tech put into cars.

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[-] otacon239@lemmy.world 26 points 6 days ago

Add it to the ever-growing pile of why fly-by-wire for cars is and always will be a bad idea.

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[-] coralof@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago

And here I was mad that I could only find Android Auto head units when the radio in my 15 year old car died.

This sounds like a nightmare.

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[-] mo_lave@reddthat.com 17 points 6 days ago

Enrico Pucci was able to control his former partner’s electric car remotely, controlling its speed, temperature settings and lock

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[-] danielfm123@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 days ago

Smart devices are for dumb people.

[-] lechekaflan@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I'm sure there's some online fora and FB groups for absolute psychofuck narcissists who will go to great lengths to terrorize their supposed partners and children, and exchange awful ideas on how to keep them on a leash, and this includes the above takeover of a fucking Tesla.

[-] DevDave@piefed.social 14 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Reminded me of a claimed incident where a reporter or whistle blower was killed by their car. thought it was weird that it wasn't bigger news.

edit: tried searching for it. Not Hastings or that ABC conspiracy. Though perhaps something was up with Hastings but that's a whole other mess.

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