Yeh. Some families do like each other, despite the internets effort to make us believe otherwise.
I think there are many sliding scales that apply simultaneously. One is age. I used to look forward to this sort of thing when I was a kid and the enthusiasm has decreased since then at the pace of a falling parabola. To a point where I moved far away. Number of certifiable assholes present is another one. If you can hide with the good guys, it's okay. If there is no way to escape, it sucks. These days are held to please that part of the family which is closer to death of natural causes. So another sliding scale is how much do you want to please your elders. How is the food? That might be worth it alone. And as a last example, how much do you like your relatives? Configure these sliders and you get your opinion. Anything from absolutely hating it to loving every minute is possible and no opinion wrong.
I like them. It’s fun if you only see them once a year. If nothing else, enjoy the pets, food, and drink:)
I've found it to be a more and more positive experience as I get older. Not due to increasing wisdom or anything, just changes in how I prioritize connection and my skill at socializing with people I don't actually know super well.
My family generally only does this for weddings and funerals. So it's rare, and there's a "theme" so to speak.
Do you like hanging out with friends? Imagine you're also related to them.
Do you like hanging out with friends?
No.
Imagine you’re also related to them.
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